I've posted here extensively over the years about my relationship with my fiancee.
The gist is; I just have this weird gut feeling something is going on. We're long distance as of graduation (post-uni). She moved to a city 150 miles away, I stayed here in our hometown uni location (I live locally).
At start of our relationship she kissed another girl; admitted to it the day after, in a frenzied phone-call, very emotional, teary. I forgave her, though I was destroyed inside. Two years has gone past- I have never ever forgotten.
We're engaged (as crazy as it sounds), we developed a deep connection and I thought we'd moved past it.
Fast forward to current tense: She is living away in a two-be house; I am paying rent on it, even though I don't live there to support her.
Recently long distance fiancee she started a new job, her comms via Facebook have been very sparse, albeit she works 40+ hours a week now, we've gone from speaking numerous times a day to like maybe a message here a message there.
But what I notice more is the amount of times I've messaged her late on an evening, knowing full well she ain't at work, and she's seen my message and been online (on mob/or web) and she doesn't reply, meanwhile, replies in early hours.
I, naturally found this odd, I've addressed my anger at this, her responses are varying. I fell asleep on sofa; I fell asleep in bed (despite telling me she couldnt sleep there whilst i wasnt about).
Upon addressing I told her it was an issue, she was accommodating. Would tell me she'd skype me, and she was messaging more frequently on her breaks. She said to me, I'd skype you tonight, I'd have a quick nap, and skype you...shes been shown to have been online periodically (when I got in from work)...then I check and she isnt even on chat (she'd turned off chat; or so it looked).
I have a horrible gut feeling for the last week nearly two weeks. I am drinking a lot, and I'll be honest, I have a drink problem; I drink alcohol a lot recently. I mean I used to use alcohol a lot to suppress my feelings; but this is just something else.
I have work tomorrow and I dont even want to go in. I see a therapist for my mental health issues; but they were never as bad as this. I must admit, I have a paranoia issue, but I don't think this is the case. Why do I have this constant bad feeling?
Some of you may recognise my story.