Virgin after university

Hi

I am 21 years old and I am virgin, I haven't kissed a girl before and can be at sometimes shy. Its my last year at uni and I know I won't kiss a girl this year nor lose my virginity. Is it weird at this age to not kiss a girl and still be a virgin? is it a turn off. Anybody got any experiences or in same boat as me?

Reply 1

bellalalaxo

11

Nah, it's fine, you have plenty of time

Reply 2

BullViagra

15

yes it is weird, your best bet is to lie to girls and say you've sexed a few times. nothing wrong with that. first time sex isnt really that difficult anyway.

realistically most normal humans would find you strange for not having any sexual contact with any person at that age. just being honest.

Reply 3

Evangelion

8

Not as uncommon as you think.

Reply 4

SophisticatedSir

8

Original post by BullViagra

yes it is weird, your best bet is to lie to girls and say you've sexed a few times. nothing wrong with that. first time sex isnt really that difficult anyway.

realistically most normal humans would find you strange for not having any sexual contact with any person at that age. just being honest.

They really won't.

Perpetuating sterotypes don't help. The stigma assosiated with sex or lack of sexual experience is a social construct.

Reply 5

cole-slaw

5

If you're worried, why not go out and do something about it?

Reply 6

Clomper

7

I don't think it's strange, I just think there's a stigma attached so less people talk about it and it makes you feel like you're in the minority. Sure, it might be the minority but I'd guess 30-40% which by no means is small.

Be patient, it'll come.

Reply 7

jamesbrookes

Im 56 never seen a nude in my life and lifes gooooooood

Reply 8

loveleest

21

It's not that bad to be honest, but a lot of people would find it weird/unusual.

Reply 9

cole-slaw

5

Original post by Clomper

I don't think it's strange, I just think there's a stigma attached so less people talk about it and it makes you feel like you're in the minority. Sure, it might be the minority but I'd guess 30-40% which by no means is small.

Be patient, it'll come.

63% have lost their virginity before their 19th birthday, 80% before their 21st birthday, and 91% before their 24th birthday.

Stats on having kissed a girl would be considerably higher, probably 95%+ by the age of 21.

Reply 10

Goaded

17

It's no big deal. :smile:

Reply 11

Anonymoose12

6

Don't worry, buddy. There's nothing wrong with that. Personally, I'm saving myself for Amsterdam.

Reply 12

Just want oreos

10

Original post by Anonymous

Hi

I am 21 years old and I am virgin, I haven't kissed a girl before and can be at sometimes shy. Its my last year at uni and I know I won't kiss a girl this year nor lose my virginity. Is it weird at this age to not kiss a girl and still be a virgin? is it a turn off. Anybody got any experiences or in same boat as me?

oh please, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you!
If you want to start getting experiences then do it or find ways to get past your shyness!! If not pleasee just wait until your ready :u:

Reply 13

Speckle

18

Students tend to use Virgin internet because they are the only company that provides 9 month contracts, and as a bonus you don't need a landline. Perfect as they will inevitably move out in the summer.

After university I would suggest you opt for BT for broadband if you like sport, or TalkTalk for their customer service.

Hope this helps bro.

Reply 14

BullViagra

15

Original post by SophisticatedSir

They really won't.

Perpetuating sterotypes don't help. The stigma assosiated with sex or lack of sexual experience is a social construct.

okay?

we're talking about the real world here, not just you. most people arent deep sophisticated, they will judge - shallow or not.

is that a bad thing? who cares

Reply 15

Alexion

17

Original post by BullViagra

first time sex isnt really that difficult anyway.

Pfft, not sure I believe that :unsure:

Reply 16

BullViagra

15

Original post by Alexion

Pfft, not sure I believe that :unsure:

just dont try any ambitious position. missionary is best.

watch some porn and study exactly how they insert the d cus thats the confusing part

my first time trying to do doggy was a fail (wrong hole almost)

Reply 17

SophisticatedSir

8

Original post by BullViagra

okay?

we're talking about the real world here, not just you. most people arent deep sophisticated, they will judge - shallow or not.

is that a bad thing? who cares

So you should lie to appeal to unlikeable dicks who you probably wouldn't want to be around?

And then you state who cares? Sending conflicting messages here. Really just sounds like telltale signs of insecurity.

Also by that logic given that everybody judges people to a certain degree you might as well cut all contact with the outside world.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 18

loveleest

21

Original post by cole-slaw

63% have lost their virginity before their 19th birthday, 80% before their 21st birthday, and 91% before their 24th birthday.

Stats on having kissed a girl would be considerably higher, probably 95%+ by the age of 21.

where did you find those statistics from?

Reply 19

Asolare

20

My god lol at the hedonistic masculinity in this thread, lose ur virginity when u ****ing want to not when other people ****ing think you should and any other stupid ass poster who thinks otherwise needs a ****ing mental health check

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