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Girlfriend material vs. freaky?

Have two options regarding a predicament.

I have to choose between a girl that could be girlfriend material, but wants to be exclusive and do the whole 'waiting' before anything happens and a girl I'm down with atm and will essentially let me do anything/poo I want to/on/in/near her. there are pro's and cons to each of them but need advice. Do I proceed cautiously with the possibility of long term happiness but sacrifice short term happiness or do I embrace the golden shower that life has handed me on a plate?

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Reply 1

Mayhem™

How old are you? If you're quite young then I'd go with the short term.

Reply 2

meediaabid

I doubt he's in his late twenties, so just go with the latter unless you're not really prioritizing physical things :colone:

Reply 3

Hannah194

golden shower

golden shower

golden shower

das it mane, das it

Reply 4

SmellyProtein

Original post by heineken

Have two options regarding a predicament.

I have to choose between a girl that could be girlfriend material, but wants to be exclusive and do the whole 'waiting' before anything happens and a girl I'm down with atm and will essentially let me do anything I want to/on/in/near her. there are pro's and cons to each of them but need advice. Do I proceed cautiously with the possibility of long term happiness but sacrifice short term happiness or do I embrace the golden shower that life has handed me on a plate?

aha golden shower ....

oh i got beaten to it. :frown:

freak me baby

.....

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Reply 7

meediaabid

Original post by heineken

29 in may

and not sure, I'm just unlikely to find someone this 'open' again?

Don't take the piss maaaan...

Ah well, in that case, people in their late twenties usually want to settle down but its pretty subjective, and as for the "freaky" thing, everyone gets freaky when they're comfortable with someone, some people just take longer, it establishes better bond

I think of cheesecake as I write this

Reply 8

heineken

Original post by meediaabid

But even when comfortable. ...not many would be willing to participate in certain play ...

Cheesecake?

Reply 9

Schrödingers Cat

Maybe the only chance you'll get to do anal

Reply 10

heineken

Original post by Schrödingers Cat

Maybe the only chance you'll get to do anal

That was first hookup with the freaky girl.

Reply 11

Schrödingers Cat

Original post by heineken

That was first hookup with the freaky girl.

I wasn't talking about giving

Reply 12

meediaabid

Original post by heineken

But even when comfortable. ...not many would be willing to participate in certain play ...

Cheesecake?

People get intimidated by certain stuff, due to either lack of inexperience or inadequate trust with partners, in which can be improved over time definitely, however that's true, for some things people will never come around which is why you have to assess, yourself, if you would rather take it slow and possibly get serious or have fun and experiment