Ok plot twist- met this guy online...

I recently met this guy and he asked to take me out for drinks after we exchanged numbers. I didn't give him a straight answer at the time. We've been speaking for a couple days now, so I asked when we were going out for drinks earlier.

He responded and said ' you can come over any time'. I will not be going to his house since he is basically a stranger and I don't know enough about him. I just find it strange that before he was keen to go out and now he's saying I can come over whenever I want.

Anyway I suggested we did something in a public place and he asked if I'm wining and dining him. I said I wasn't and joked about only getting him a glass of water. He then went off into one asking why he should pay for me when I asked him out. I let him know that I can take care of myself and I didn't expect anything from him. He laughed it off, called me miss independent and now he's asking when I'm free.

Do you find the way he asked me to come over weird? I don't know him from Adam, I'm not looking to get kidnapped. Has anyone else been invited to a person's house having known them for almost a week?

Hi I wouldn't recommend going, especially because he's a stranger.

first date should always been in a public place.

DO NOT GO TO HIS HOUSE... He may be dodgy or he may be genuine and u have no way of knowing yet...
Roughly what age r u?

Sounds like a ****

I'm definitely not going!!

Thanks I agree.



Lol I know! I'm 27.



Why do you say that?

I'm just worried about stuff like this. I once read a news article about a kid that visited another guy his age whom he'd met online and supposedly became friends with who then murdered him. Nasty people in this world!

I recently met this guy and he asked to take me out for drinks after we exchanged numbers. I didn't give him a straight answer at the time. We've been speaking for a couple days now, so I asked when we were going out for drinks earlier.

He responded and said ' you can come over any time'. I will not be going to his house since he is basically a stranger and I don't know enough about him. I just find it strange that before he was keen to go out and now he's saying I can come over whenever I want.

Anyway I suggested we did something in a public place and he asked if I'm wining and dining him. I said I wasn't and joked about only getting him a glass of water. He then went off into one asking why he should pay for me when I asked him out. I let him know that I can take care of myself and I didn't expect anything from him. He laughed it off, called me miss independent and now he's asking when I'm free.

Do you find the way he asked me to come over weird? I don't know him from Adam, I'm not looking to get kidnapped. Has anyone else been invited to a person's house having known them for almost a week?

Forget his sketchiness, he also sounds like a douche. Although it could just be nerves? I would definitely not go to his place until you know him a lot better x

Sorry that wos a bit strong in a way but just in case a tinsey but of u were wanting to go... Ur older than me so im guessing ur a lot more mature than me and can actually make a rational choice... like the others have said if u do wanna meet him probz be best in a really public space.

Who's Adam?

Sounds like an asshat - stroppy and pushing you to put yourself in a dodgy situation. He doesn't have your interests in mind and clearly just wants to get his end away. Avoid avoid avoid.


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I'm just worried about stuff like this. I once read a news article about a kid that visited another guy his age whom he'd met online and supposedly became friends with who then murdered him. Nasty people in this world!

Dude just wants to have sex with you the message is clear if you continue seeing him and something you don't like happens you can only blame yourself. This guy is not looking for a long relationship so don't expect anything special between you two, it's obvious.

I recently met this guy and he asked to take me out for drinks after we exchanged numbers. I didn't give him a straight answer at the time. We've been speaking for a couple days now, so I asked when we were going out for drinks earlier.

He responded and said ' you can come over any time'. I will not be going to his house since he is basically a stranger and I don't know enough about him. I just find it strange that before he was keen to go out and now he's saying I can come over whenever I want.

Anyway I suggested we did something in a public place and he asked if I'm wining and dining him. I said I wasn't and joked about only getting him a glass of water. He then went off into one asking why he should pay for me when I asked him out. I let him know that I can take care of myself and I didn't expect anything from him. He laughed it off, called me miss independent and now he's asking when I'm free.

Do you find the way he asked me to come over weird? I don't know him from Adam, I'm not looking to get kidnapped. Has anyone else been invited to a person's house having known them for almost a week?

My gf invited me over only the second time we spoke, went round, watched anime etc. It wasn't for another 2 months that we actually got together