Ldr Said she was only wanted to be friends with me,how shall I reply

i think if i were you i'd know i gotta leave this asap, cause the difference how both of you view the definition of commitment is high.

but then like you i would be tormented by feelers and so to deal with that i'd binge talk to random strangers online but whats ideal is talking about it to friends, trusted ones who would be able to listen and understand and divert you.

Have you met this girl in person?

I just can't though because I'm like glued to her and attached like it distracts me from everything,like I can't live without her.
Oh ok yh,I will talk about it to friends. But like it makes no sense because even sexted a few times I guess she was there for like a fwb but online.I gave her a reply and I'm just waiting to see what she says now

Nope

glad to hear you're gonna discuss with friends.
her commitments changed way fast , that sounds unstable ground for a committed relationship imo.
perhaps you could re- clarify if she still stands at the fwb stance, my bad, this be tough
are there any routine activities which gets you into flow state? i'd relocate my focus there. i have heard of how hectic work could be helpful cause it takes our minds off but its a different thing for everyone

Then I wouldn't consider that to have been a proper relationship when you haven't even met her face to face and dated in person. LDRs rarely work out, especially when the distances involved are so big like in this case. It's much easier for her to find an American guy in her area and date him. You need to move on, cut her off and find someone here in the UK.

Yep,excactly.Oh nothing works I've tried everything but now I feel cool though because it's her loss at the end of the day

i see, yeah i agree its her loss at the end of the day

Yep,I don't think I'll ever trust love again

I just can't though because I'm like glued to her and attached like it distracts me from everything,like I can't live without her.

at this moment that's a reasonable stance imo
thankfully there are many other kinds of love that exist besides romance, depending with the lens we choose to perceive with

You have an extremely unhealthy attachment to her. Rather than be friends, I would suggest that you cut contact entirely. You need emotional and mental distance from her to heal.

I just can't though because I'm like glued to her and attached like it distracts me from everything,like I can't live without her.
Oh ok yh,I will talk about it to friends. But like it makes no sense because even sexted a few times I guess she was there for like a fwb but online.I gave her a reply and I'm just waiting to see what she says now

Yeo I guess,yh that's true . No offence but I'm never trust a women again like in terms of dating etc

Dude how can you be attached to someone you haven’t even met…come on now 😂

you've got your reasons yo i respect that
i dont think i could trust online relationship after the past that i had as well. Then again i wouldnt know if the guy i knew of, could represent every dude of every culture in real life as well but because i had invested much at first online relationship which sailed away without much returns i wouldn't wanna get into that dating/ relationship area for foreseeable future.

Oh ok that makes total sense ,yh that's true,that's a shame. I guess real life dating is completely different to online dating.