Can you ever see yourself "settling down" and having kids?

It's changing skies isn't it? Even I have a crush on changing skies.

She is pretty/lovable but nope, not her I shall disappear before I singlehandedly derail this thread

I settled down, got married and had kids at 21. I'm well in there.

Talk to me when you have the guts to go off anon tool. I don't wish to waste my time on a anon.

Yes, it would. When you make major decisions, you are expected to do it taking into account your partner's needs/desires. For example, you couldn't just accept that awesome job offer without consulting with your partner because it would mean living far from each other. Or you couldn't put big money on that house/car you like without consulting your partner, because you have a shared account. Also, if your partner every has a major accident and ends up in a wheelchair, you are expected to take care of your partner in detriment of any wishes (journeys, treks, etc) you might have. There are both upsides and downsides to it.

The problem with what you said is that you're making a general statement that would fit most people, but not necessarily me. It's only limiting if you actually want to or care to do some things differently. I wouldn't be moving every time I saw a job offer somewhere because I want to have my own home, a partner has nothing to do with it. And if the job would be too good to let go, then it would probably pay for the both of us so no reason for him not to move with me. I don't find consulting someone when buying a house or a car limiting, chances are it will give more options with two working people as opposed to me having a smaller budget because I'm on my own.

Same with the major accident thing, wouldn't limit me in any way because there's nothing I want to do that a wheelchair would get in the way of. Your statement is ok, because a relationship can be limiting. The problem is that you aimed it at me specifically. I personally would not be limited by a stable relationship, it would probably only give more options.

Would you do it again at 21 or would you postpone it for later? (I hope you didn't regret having kids so I won't ask that :/)

You know me very well and we've spoken many times on other forums.

Just wait and watch! Victory will be mine but you'll all be invited to the wedding

Lol gurl you are pathetic for going on Anon and trying to bait BL with your stupid crap.

If it's a joke then drop it because it isn't funny.

If it isn't a joke then seriously why would anyone choose a cowardly baiter over someone beautiful and amazing like BL ?! loooolll.

Thank you so much, Ethereal!!

Seriously, my life is more than just replying this jealous anon. So Imma enjoy me and my man's time together and let this jealous anon get jealous even more

Cos...


#IndeterLife is more important than this jealous anon

Settling down? Yeah. Kind of already have. Not marriage, but been together six years and living together.

Kids? Can't imagine it to be honest. I can't really look after myself well enough, let alone a child. Also, I like having freedom and money.
I'm sure I'll want them someday. Or give in to societal pressure to have them anyway.

I just don’t understand why they go on anon- because they know once indeterminate identifies them he’ll be like ermmmmm I like BL, not you you coward! And that will be super awkward

The thing is people can like the same people but they don’t need to bait you about it. And IndeterLife is a thing and so people should respect that- even if they’re jealous of you they should respect HIM and leave his gurl alone. Smh.

You need to start getting the horse out:


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You know me very well and we've spoken many times on other forums.

Just wait and watch! Victory will be mine but you'll all be invited to the wedding

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