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    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
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    (Original post by Lucyrosie)
    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
    Hey Lucy. Wanna have a chat send me a message x
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    Here you go.... U have somebody now
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    I have been the same for a long time. I asked a guy randomly on a night out (an older guy) and he told me that I come across as a strong intimidating woman. This, I was rather shocked but I was rather flattered with simultaneously.

    The thing that I realised when reflecting back on that moment, is that I wasn't willing to change myself for anyone anyway, so it's just about waiting for the right one to come along that sees you as a challenge. Trust me, it will come your way and it will be more than worth it! Hang in there!
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    grrrrl you need to work on your game
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    OMG, I'm 20 tomorrow and I could have written this lol, I think a lot of it might be not putting yourself out there enough, I'd just recommend you go and do things you enjoy and meet people and then take it from there.
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    (Original post by Lucyrosie)
    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
    when the time comes you'll meet the one. It could be tomorrow, it could be a year just gotta ride out the waiting game.
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    (Original post by Lucyrosie)
    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
    You should ask Mystic Meg. She's pretty good with this kind of stuff.
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    (Original post by Lucyrosie)
    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
    There is no destiny, or if there is you have the power to make it yourself. You're still very young and have lots of time to find someone in the future. I'm only 2 years younger than you and in the same position but I always think: even if I do end up alone, would it really be so bad? There's worse things that could happen, having a partner isn't everything.
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    Hey, im 18 but feel the same as you. Ivd never had a girl approach me before.
    Are you rather quiet? Being louder will get you noticed by mors guys. Im really quiet so i know that being loud helps.
    Im sure there are some boys out there who have a thing for ya You just need to be in the right place at the right time.
    Ivd been really lonelg recently but have chatted to a couple of people on here and really enjoy chatting with them. Its really helped with my lonliness.
    If you want to meet some new people , maybe you could join a club. That way you know you have something in common with the people you meet there.
    I can 100% guadantee that youll meet someone amazing soon! Dont give up hope!
    I know how you feel!
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    Being alone is pretty awesome. At the moment I'm only in school so yep my advice is not the best to take on board, but I've got a schitty friendship group who exclude me bc they all hook up with guys on tinder and I don't. I'm not a prude, I just don't fancy meeting a stranger and sleeping with him in year 12! But the main thing is, throughout my exclusion I've acc learnt quite a bit about myself. I've learnt that it's okay to be alone, and when you're alone nobody can hurt you or offend you. I've learnt that I really am my best company, and I know myself better than anyone else does so that's good. I've also learnt that being alone helps you improve you as I'm stuck in a circle of figuring out what I want in life.

    Use your time with you wisely and focus on yourself for the time being, because you never meet people by accident and people put in as much effort as they want to do- YOU are your only reliable friend gal, never forget that. Selfish people live longer sadly, and I've been kind and giving my whole life and it's made me get here. Nope, not anymore
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    Could be worse. I'm a 25 year old professional earning above the national average and I still haven't had my first kiss or been on a date.
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    (Original post by Lucyrosie)
    Hey, so I'm a 20 year old student and I've never had a boyfriend, like literally no one shows any interest in me at all. Guyd don't ask for my number, have never approached me or ever liked me. I'm not desperate for a man but I just wish I could have resurance that someone would be attracted to me, I just get lonely sometimes, I'm scared I'll never find anyone
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