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    I'm about to start college and my college year only has about 100 people in it so everyone will know each other well. My college is also a school so people already are friends with each other but I'm new there.

    How can I get more confident with girls and talk to them without boring them?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm about to start college and my college year only has about 100 people in it so everyone will know each other well. My college is also a school so people already are friends with each other but I'm new there.

    How can I get more confident with girls and talk to them without boring them?
    I'm going to try and speak on behalf of girls despite only having my opinion to go by

    1. Be you- Don't try and be someone you aren't or lie about petty things to make yourself seems 'interesting' because its easy to tell.

    2. Don't grill them with questions- they don't want to play 20 questions. Just start small and friendly, even a bit pathetic like what's the time or help with a question and you build a (don't know what to call it) a mutual respect?? But then you can actually have in-depth conversations without it feeling planned

    3. Don't always talk about yourself or try and sell yourself to them- let them talk about themselves, of course still talk about yourself because then it turns into the 20 questions thins but don't make it a contest on who is better.

    4. Don't agree with everything they say- if you agree with everything and just say yes to everything then there is no conversation, sometimes dissagreements spark up conversation and make them more passionate about what they are talking about.

    Don't want to go on forever but those are some of my opinions and tips but just be happy and open, not just to the girl you want to talk to but in general because giving of friendly an happy vibes will make people happy to talk to you despite you being new. Good luck
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    My college is also a school so people already are friends with each other but I'm new there
    A new guy, with a little edginess, can really capture the attention, imagination, and hearts, of college chicks :danceboy:

    How can I get more confident with girls and talk to them without boring them?
    To find success you need the right information, dedication, and execution. There are three main ways to achieve this:

    • Work on yourself, starting with self-worth. If you positively glow with self-love, and esteem, people will be naturally drawn to you

    • Learn communication/seduction techniques, starting with day game basics e.g. unfiltered assumption stacking

    • Take/make every conceivable opportunity to socialise (few of us are naturally socially adept from day 1, most learn as we go)
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    Master fractionation.
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    Look big and constantly **** your leg up on desks, chairs, anything. Lean on a cocked leg with your sunglasses on right next to a female. Lean forward a bit, peer over your glasses and say "Hey lil mama you looking fine." Also, try not caring about 90% of the talking you do. Just talk. Even if it's boring, you can only learn by practise.
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    Just strike up a conversation with them. They ain't scary.

    Well, sometimes they can be.
 
 
 
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