good chat up line

You have to be sensitive as approaching strangers going about their everyday routine can be unwelcome. I wouldn’t make an obvious dating approach or lead with a question about where she works. However a reciprocated smile suggests there’d be no harm in a ‘hello, how are doing?’ to see if she is interested to talk. From there you can then give your name, ask hers and then get in to sharing a few more details

I see the same girl every morning at the bus station and I want to approach her but the only thing I know about her is she works in the same area as me and she lives in the same area as me and she gets the same bus every morning as me. I really want to come across as confident but I dont know how to break the ice with her, I have smiled at her and she does smile back but I dont know how to break the ice with her. I was thinking of saying 'do you work at ....' if she says no i dont work there then i can laugh it off and say i recognise you from somewhere where do you work? '

How have you been getting on with this approach?
Have you converted any strangers to girlfriends?



The more you care about coming across as confident, the more likely you are to come across as unattractive.

Let go of caring about how confident you seem to her. Instead, accept whatever level of confidence you have. And treat this as a little personal experiment of yours. Where you talk to an attractive fellow passenger and see how you get on.

Don't think about what you will say to her. Rehearsing it over and over in your mind is a waste of your time. Attractive guys don't waste time. Being spontaneous and coming out with any old thing is fine. Any old thing with the right underlying frame will improve your chances of her being attracted to you.

There are entire training courses (including youtube video series) on cold approach.

Its not really a cold approach if you see the same person regularly and its something i go through everyday thinking how can i initiate convo in a public place? If a girl is interested then they wont mind being asked qiestiond about her work?

I would advise AGAINST asking personal questions about her work or her private life for now, until you've established a real rapport with her (from a girls perspective, any personal information is like cat-nip for a stalker).

Corrected for you, as you missed out a crucial word.

I dont work with women my age and ive tried online but its just not for me as I prefer to meet people face to face hence why im trying to approach women who i see regularly but its difficult trying to initiate convo without coming across as too strong

I dont work with women my age and ive tried online but its just not for me as I prefer to meet people face to face hence why im trying to approach women who i see regularly but its difficult trying to initiate convo without coming across as too strong

You have to be sensitive as approaching strangers going about their everyday routine can be unwelcome. I wouldn’t make an obvious dating approach or lead with a question about where she works. However a reciprocated smile suggests there’d be no harm in a ‘hello, how are doing?’ to see if she is interested to talk. From there you can then give your name, ask hers and then get in to sharing a few more details

After all this time im still unable to make any sort of verbal contact with her and have bot even said hello. Its really getting me down as ivstill think shes interested (she keeps trying to sit near me and glances at me). If an opportunity ever presented itself would it be tactless to go straight in for a convo or should i just say hi for the time being?

Just "Hi, how are you doing? I'm ....." works great. Maybe she is shy too, so a Hi and an introduction is enough to start something. Maybe she doesn't know how to start a conversation too. Just try it.

I see the same girl every morning at the bus station and I want to approach her but the only thing I know about her is she works in the same area as me and she lives in the same area as me and she gets the same bus every morning as me. I really want to come across as confident but I dont know how to break the ice with her, I have smiled at her and she does smile back but I dont know how to break the ice with her. I was thinking of saying 'do you work at ....' if she says no i dont work there then i can laugh it off and say i recognise you from somewhere where do you work? '

brp use a rizz line

I see the same girl every morning at the bus station and I want to approach her but the only thing I know about her is she works in the same area as me and she lives in the same area as me and she gets the same bus every morning as me. I really want to come across as confident but I dont know how to break the ice with her, I have smiled at her and she does smile back but I dont know how to break the ice with her. I was thinking of saying 'do you work at ....' if she says no i dont work there then i can laugh it off and say i recognise you from somewhere where do you work? '

whats a 'rizz' line?

like basivcally say "its abit cold today" can you warm me up, actually ur too hot" or "are u my mat, so i can postrate on u", or just go for the kiss man if u can tell shes going for it how old r u roghly

like basivcally say "its abit cold today" can you warm me up, actually ur too hot" or "are u my mat, so i can postrate on u", or just go for the kiss man if u can tell shes going for it how old r u roghly