My gf doesn't seem keen

Basically we pulled a couple of times I started to like her then she admitted she liked me so we started going out. When we are just one on one shes great fun and that but she never gives compliments and in school she'll never and come sit next to me first. Also she nevers ask me to hang out I always have to ask her first and so the other day I asked her if I was doing anything wrong and then she was like nah that leads me on to asking if we are right for each other. And I was like sure, we get on well etc and she was like same I think it could last a while...
ffs, I think im just paranoid One of my pals who grew up with her says she just plays her cards close to her chest but idk, she just seems a bit uninrerested ya know?

ANyway thoughts please thanks

That would annoy me if i was you if i was the one always initiating everything. How about you pull back a little dont keep contacting her first see if she does. Maybe she thinks cause you always initiate everything she dosen't need to and its making her lazy.

Okay thanks I'll try that

Good you need to show her if she dosen't step up there are other girls waiting. So act like you are busy and show less interest not as much as before but don't go cold on her it will make her think that you are the one losing interest and she will make an effort not to lose you if she is interested.

Good you need to show her if she dosen't step up there are other girls waiting. So act like you are busy and show less interest not as much as before but don't go cold on her it will make her think that you are the one losing interest and she will make an effort not to lose you if she is interested.

That's so mean

Alright cool I'll try that, thanks man

It works though he should stay friendly but hold back to make her think and if she is interested she will step forward and if she dosen't then this is what the relationship will always be like him always making the effort .


Im a girl not man!!

Your welcome