Hey!My name's Gabi. I'm not a guy, but I am a teen about your age, and all I can say is that you seem to be lacking confidence in your body image. I can see that you have some confidence when you mentioned that you think you are pretty and kind, and that is so amazing, but please don't bully yourself over something as trivial as the attention of some guy. You do not, nor should you ever, have to change anything about yourself in an attempt to have sex or a boyfriend. The kind of love that truly matters is the one that springs organically, the kind that feels comfortable and so utterly obvious to you that you won't be worrying about weight. I've been there. I think all girls have. In this society, we women don't have it as easy as some people might assume, now do we? Everyone is too brunette, too blonde, too bony, too chubby, too pale, too dark. We always seem to be too much of some things and too little of others. Once you find out who you are, you won't have to ask yourself whether you're ready or not for a relationship. You just will be. And guys will notice that. Make sure that you feel good in your skin and try to stay healthy, but only for your sake and wellbeing and not for the attention of others. Also, please keep in mind that all of this is way easier said than done. One other point I'd like to make is that the concept of the