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Boyfriend tells you he needs a side chick watch


    (Original post by Bio 7)
    I do agree the relationship should be ended, and he certainly should see that and be willing to do it. But I still feel people are being harsher than necessary since he hasn't actually cheated on her as far as we know and all he has done is ask and push it a bit.

    I'm not trying to defend him completely but merely point out how harsh people are towards him.
    It’s the lack of respect for her and her beliefs and views that I take serious issue with. He’s totally invalidating her beliefs and wishes and that’s wrong. It’s disrespectful and if my partner tried this, he’d be out on his ear. If she chooses to agree to him having sex with someone else to keep her relationship, that is her choice and I won’t argue with it - but it’s the total lack of respect that riles me, as from my experience that would only worsen should the relationship continue
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    In other words, he wants your permission to cheat on you.

    If neither of you are happy, you shouldn't be together.
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