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    Hi,so me and my boyfriend have recently just got back together after a little split, both of us have agreed to start fresh which is really nice and going extremely well - he is trying to sort himself out (I won’t go into details about the relationship) I trust the boy and I know he would NEVER cheat and he has stopped talking to the girls he was talking to and deleted tinder it’s really nothing I’m concerned about in terms of actual cheating however.....We were on his photo looking at videos and next thing I know on his photo album he had a album called hidden. Which seemed odd to me!! now i have never done this and I’m not proud of it but he has half naked and sexual pictures of print screens of Instagram girls..... not all of them are models just random girls he either follows or doesn’t by the looks of it..should I be aannoyed? Is this normal for men? does it mean anything?I’ve already asked him to change his password on his phone because I said I was tempted to look at it. I feel like an idiot already! Thanks in advance.
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    Someone clearly needs to grow up and start taking things seriously if he’s in a relationship. Most or even all men look at other women, same as most women look at other men. As long as they’re both just looking, that’s fine.
    But to add, people change, but very rarely, if he’s messed up before he’s likely to mess up again (which I’m assuming was the reason for the initial split - just a wild guess). Give him a chance - and if he breaks your trust, dump him.

    P.S. as for checking ones texts/messages - if you have doubts, do it. And if you find things that aren’t supposed to be there - well maybe someone doesn’t really care about you. I am the one for trust and all that schizz, but better be safe than sorry - I’ve had one guy text his ex to confess he’s still in love with her, while he was with me; and another one sextexting and receiving pics of his female “best friend” pleasing herself through snapchat. Neither of which I’d have found out otherwise.
    But if you look and it’s all clear - relax, but still be vigilant. Trust is great, but honesty is better - and in my opinion if you are not happy with someone you should either try to fix whatever it is or leave them, however some people want to have their cake and eat it, instead of breaking up with someone who may not be for them they decide to just entertain themselves with other people.
    Or, depending on the age and the mindset, they are just not ready to be in a relationship.

    All in all, everyone makes mistakes, but if what they do is basically their lifestyle - if you don’t like it, you don’t really need to put up with it.
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    Emm see I would of said you should know his phone password in order to keep him under control. He shouldn’t have them photos because it doesn’t reinforce to him that you are the only girl he should be looking at
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    There is nothing wrong with a man having a W A N K bank but where the photos are coming from is the strange thing, if its from a porn website no problem but I doubt those girls of instagram would want their photos used like that. If he is truly into you then he shouldn't be looking at other girls like that but saying guys get more sexually frustrated compared to women so he might be using it just to relief himself while he isn't in a relationship.
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    (Original post by LonelyDemon)
    There is nothing wrong with a man having a W A N K bank but where the photos are coming from is the strange thing, if its from a porn website no problem but I doubt those girls of instagram would want their photos used like that. If he is truly into you then he shouldn't be looking at other girls like that but saying guys get more sexually frustrated compared to women so he might be using it just to relief himself while he isn't in a relationship.
    W**k bank? Is that a thing now? Need to get on with times, me 😂
 
 
 
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