Going down on a girl

Well no you don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable with, however on the other hand I hope you’re not expecting the same

It's not something that everyone feels comfortable doing, which is fine.

You could always get a dental dam, which covers it while you give oral sex, if that would make you feel more able to do it. Over time you may then decide that you can try without. Would it help to suggest showering together so you can be absolutely sure she's completely clean, maybe, if that's what's worrying you?

I had an ex who wouldn't even try it, and my partner now loves doing it, so there really is a mix of attitudes towards it. Tell her how you feel though - don't just keep ignoring it.

She asked me to twice the last time we were having sex. I just didn't do anything and carried on.

I Want to and I don't think it's me being selfish, happy to finger etc. I just don't want my mouth down there, it's just a natural feeling idk how to put it without sounding like a ****

Is it normal?
(girls) would you be annoyed if I didn't want too?
What can I say that won't kill the mood, and relationship?

She asked me to twice the last time we were having sex. I just didn't do anything and carried on.

I Want to and I don't think it's me being selfish, happy to finger etc. I just don't want my mouth down there, it's just a natural feeling idk how to put it without sounding like a ****

Is it normal?
(girls) would you be annoyed if I didn't want too?
What can I say that won't kill the mood, and relationship?

Seriously you can’t espect a girl to go down on you but not you on her. Doesn’t matter on the facts or what you think it isn’t fair. I wouldn’t do it if he didn’t for me. And plus, it would be a massive turn off if your that weird in bed. Sex would be very boring , what about other things? Me and my partner love to be adventurous , licking everywhere. Up to you if you want to just have plain boring sex, and be lucky if you meet someone just as boring. But if I slept with someone like that, I certainly wouldn’t want to again!!

I've always thought going down on a girl and a boy aren't really equivalent to each other. A penis is an external organ, while the vagina is internal.

I've always thought going down on a girl and a boy aren't really equivalent to each other. A penis is an external organ, while the vagina is internal.

Seriously? So you wouldn't sleep with them because of that minor thing?
Thats shocking .

I am surprised too

When she asked again I said no and she was annoyed but nothing has really changed other than her making the odd annoyed joke about it - we've continued as normal otherwise.

I want to do anything to please her and would do anything else, here it is just something in my head that finds the my tongue & mouth being in an area of that texture, feeling, taste, smell - I mean I can't even have the fats and chewy bits of meat lmao

Seriously? So you wouldn't sleep with them because of that minor thing?
Thats shocking .