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Do any like polite boys?

I mean boys who aren't loud, cocky or low-key insulting other people (which is allegedly considered 'banter' and not 'serious'), they don't swear, and they don't sexualise everything. I don't mean corny, cringey guys. Just polite and kind to everyone.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Of course, a little politeness goes a long way. Who said no-one likes nice guys?

Reply 2

ilem

Women like attractive polite boys and attractive rude boys, simple as that.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

I mean boys who aren't loud, cocky or low-key insulting other people (which is allegedly considered 'banter' and not 'serious' :wink:

, they don't swear, and they don't sexualise everything. I don't mean corny, cringey guys. Just polite and kind to everyone.

Sometimes they are just too polite. It's nice for a guy to be teasy but know his limit and still be a gentleman.

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Not my type. Then again someone like that would probably find me repulsive anyway. I get along best with people who curse like sailors and don’t mind my twisted sense of humour.

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Anonymous #4

I like polite boys as long as they have a sense of humour and aren't TOO polite, I like some banter in a relationship. I don't like cocky guys much

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Anonymous #1

Original post by SomMC1

That's bc they are faking the kindness and only kind to their crush. To any other person they act like disgusting.

I did say kind and polite to everyone in my oP because I know such people and wanted to draw a distinction.

But all the popular guys I know are a bit dickish to other people. And they always sexualise girls. Yet, they still love them so I'm confused...

Reply 7

Quyen_3

Yes I personally like polite boys, but they should have some sort of character to them (not boring) so funny, sarcastic and whatnot.

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fallen_acorns

polite is good.. but most guys who would defend themselves as being a polite are more likely pathetic.

You need to be rude sometimes - to get anywhere in life. Overly polite guys are not succesfull guys, either with women or in life.