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Would you marry a guy that has slept around?

Personally I wouldn't,I don't mind the guy having sex within a relationship. But a guy sleeping around while not being in a relationship, i just couldn't. Sure they could lie about the number of sexual partners, but to me trust is one of the principles of my relationships. If he thinks he has the privilege of telling lies, then i guess that also grants me permission to lie about anything i want before or during a relationship with him, none of which i would ever do.

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You haven't actually given a reason as to why you wouldn't sleep with a guy who has slept around when single, and is honest about it.
Reply 2
What do you want him to do? Sleep around while you're together?
I personally don't think there's anything wrong with having sex while you're single, if you enjoy it. My partner has slept with a lot of people while single, but I know he's committed to me because he's with me. He was with his previous partner for 8 years and didn't once sleep with anyone while with her - but he enjoys sex and is honest about the fact he doesn't like to go too long without it, so if he's single he will go looking for it.

So long as he's clean and faithful, yeah I'd marry him.
Reply 4
Bump, I want more opinions
It all depends on you, everybody eventually gets married even the real call girls.
Reply 6
BTW, I wouldn't want to marry a guy who weren't in a relationship because he'd be promiscuous and well I dislike promiscuous men wouldn't make a good husband in my opinion.
Original post by Anonymous
BTW, I wouldn't want to marry a guy who weren't in a relationship because he'd be promiscuous and well I dislike promiscuous men wouldn't make a good husband in my opinion.


peak to all the virgins then...
Yes.
But I wouldn't get sexually involved with a man whose past included threesomes, group sexual activities or a taste for violent pornography.
Original post by londonmyst
Yes.
But I wouldn't get sexually involved with a man whose past included threesomes, group sexual activities or a taste for violent pornography.



You are aware that most men would have a threesome with two girls if they could get one arn't you?

If you end up with a guy who hasn' t had a threesome there's a solid chance the reason as to why isn't because he's morally opposed to it, but because he can't get one
I wouldn’t mind but I would get him tested to be safe. I won’t judge people for having sex before marriage. Tbh there’s a benefit to it and that’s experience so ...
Yes.
I've dated men who've slept around and it's been fine. Their past hasn't ever been the issue.
No
Original post by Anonymous
You are aware that most men would have a threesome with two girls if they could get one arn't you?

If you end up with a guy who hasn' t had a threesome there's a solid chance the reason as to why isn't because he's morally opposed to it, but because he can't get one


Any guy with a well paid job can get one, all it takes is payment to an escort agency or pair of sex workers.
A little something I learned from my ex when I was 19.
Yes I would. As long as he isn't sleeping around whilst he's with me, his past doesn't matter.
Original post by londonmyst
Any guy with a well paid job can get one, all it takes is payment to an escort agency or pair of sex workers.
A little something I learned from my ex when I was 19.




Most guys don't really see prostitutes as "options" for various reasons.....

I would like a threesome ...but not enough to pay hundreds of pounds for it, and be forced to use a condom.... [i'm sure many guys are the same]

according to this study, 82% of males are interested in having one.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/strictly-casual/201603/how-many-people-are-really-interested-in-threesomes

Statistically you will probably end up with a male who hasn't had a threesome. But just rememeber, it isn't because he doesn't want one :P
Original post by Anonymous
Most guys don't really see prostitutes as "options" for various reasons.....

I would like a threesome ...but not enough to pay hundreds of pounds for it, and be forced to use a condom.... [i'm sure many guys are the same]

according to this study, 82% of males are interested in having one.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/strictly-casual/201603/how-many-people-are-really-interested-in-threesomes

Statistically you will probably end up with a male who hasn't had a threesome. But just rememeber, it isn't because he doesn't want one :P


Does "forced to use a condom" mean that you habitually risk your health and personal finances by gambling on the hope that none of the women you have ever had sex with view you as their future baby daddy-unregulated spermbank ?
Threesomes, my goodness, I would never take a man who did this in a relationship or not, what a disgusting unclean act of humanity. :colonhash:
Original post by londonmyst
Does "forced to use a condom" mean that you habitually risk your health and personal finances by gambling on the hope that none of the women you have ever had sex with view you as their future baby daddy-unregulated spermbank ?


we're veering off topic now with the safe sex/baby daddy talk.

The point I wished to make to you, was that yes ...you may get your male husband who hasn't had a threesome, ..but it won't be because he is morally opposed to it or doesn't want one. It is highly likely that he was open to one, but never got such an opperunity.
Reply 19
How many people are honest about their sexual partners toll? You need never know. If a partner seems honest and gives a number you should multiply that by 10.
It doesn't matter how many. You need to live in the now, past partners are in the past.

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