Sex in a first relationship
Do you expect sex in a first relationship (for both partners) to be quite vanilla? What are/were your experiences?
The first man I slept with was heavily into BDSM. So for me no.
Original post by Anonymous
now that you've said 'vanilla' I have a strong craving for ice cream
mint choc chip is better
can't talk from experience but i would expect it to be quite awkward, particularly if it's a first for both
Original post by Anonymous
can't talk from experience but i would expect it to be quite awkward, particularly if it's a first for both
Do you think over time it could get less awkward?
Original post by Anonymous
Do you think over time it could get less awkward?
of course it would! actually i think in some cases it can eventually get 'boring', at which point you'd need to vary things up lol
Original post by sinfonietta
The first man I slept with was heavily into BDSM. So for me no.
you're missing out
jokes aside, definitely not for everyone and steer clear of anyone that insist on incorporating it into sex.
Original post by Anonymous
you're missing out
jokes aside, definitely not for everyone and steer clear of anyone that insist on incorporating it into sex.
jokes aside, definitely not for everyone and steer clear of anyone that insist on incorporating it into sex.
Uh. A bit late for that warning. I have been involved in the scene for 7 years and I'm an author of erotic fiction.
(edited 4 years ago)
Original post by sinfonietta
Uh. A bit late for that warning. I have been involved in the scene for 7 years and I'm an author of erotic fiction.
haha fair enough, misunderstood your post.
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