'Men are trash' True or not? All men, some men, few men?

I'm certain that nothing that I say will convince you and you've very well reasoned to yourself why you behave like this.
I still think that you're hurting yourself but if you say that's how you wish to live who am I?
But I do not think that the vast majority of people would live better following what you say.
I'll take your word that you're not selfish.
But I still disagree that simply waving off any meaningful intimacy as a childish fantasy is a healthy thing to do.
I sincerely hope you will be content with your choices.

You have a very different basic life philosophy to me.

If it works well for you, that's fine.

However, picking up on a few things you said.
You said "The more you reveal about yourself to a partner or friend, the more you leave yourself open to attack. The more vulnerable you make yourself the higher chance you are to be trampled on."
That's not my style. I am very honest and open with my close friends and especially my girlfriend. I have no taboo subject. I will start talking about intimate (for example sexual things) that they normally wouldn't start talking about.
I can't see how being open and honest about everything can leave me vulnerable to attack? There is nothing that I can think of that I could say about myself to my close friends that would leave me open to attack from them.

Please give me a concrete example of how some revelation has left someone open to attack and I'll tell you how I'd react in the same situation. Chances are the "attack" would be water off a ducks back for me. Or I'd turn it round and say "The problem isn't with me, it's with you for attacking me. You're just being intolerant."

The main reason for a large proportion of marriages being relatively unhappy is because of one or more incompatabilities in one of the 6 or so core areas where a couple needs to be compatible in order to be happy. 2 of these include attitude to money and sexual compatability. In so many unhappy marriages you have 2 people that are basicly nice enough human beings, but there is some underlying incompatability that is causing the unhappiness.

The expression about having your heart broken is a cliche. The best prevention or cure for a broken heart is maintaining a high self esteem and the expectation that good things will happen in the future. Because when one romantic relationship ends - for whatever reason - you have a good cry about it for a couple of days, then pick yourself up and start the hunt for the next romantic partner.

I have no fear about having my heart broken. I have no fear about being very honest and fully open with the people that are close to me.

Lol. Just because your a man doesn't mean you speak for all of them. I'll correct you;

"I'm a man and I'm trash"

There you go

Is that your confession because I am afraid it doesn't apply to this God of a man.

@J Papi, you can pay me for this flattery by getting me my next offer. Thanks xx

Anon because #Shy

I understand now, you mentioned how you're much happier now than before your change of mindset.
Well listen here little baby. You're gonna get a lot of hurtful and degrading comments, but that ain't what I'm about. Let me just say, you are perfect the way you are. You hear me sugar? PERFECT. Don't ever change. You deserve anything and everything you want. Stay safe for me, baby girl. >mfw thinking of you hurting

I will make you my wife.

Lol. trying to insult me but is too scared to not post anon. Obviously I was making a satirical approach to this mans comment by correcting him on his comment on behalf of men to comment for himself because he is himself.

Also, don't be afraid to post. I don't care for insults I can take them but I hate when people post anon as it makes me think that they don't feel confident in themselves. Why be scared to be yourself, you should never be afraid to be you. I hope you get more confidence in yourself as it really helps.

I honestly tremble in fear at the mere thought of insulting someone on TSR with my username, ah, the horror.


I was joking too, obviously I don't know if you are trash. Are you? Probably not.

You should become a shrink, I already feel as if I could conquer all my fears with that speech. May Allah, Jesus and Gandhi all bless you, my dear man. #myRoleModel
#ExposingMyselfForYou

I don't know about all men but personally it's safer not to get too close to them emotionally. Most will cheat eventually anyway.

I don't know about all men but personally it's safer not to get too close to them emotionally. Most will cheat eventually anyway.

All these compliments but no rep - feels bad man

That is just such ****