Girls who never reply on tinder, why?

I never get any replies and I’m curious to why

1) You're not using good introductions. Saying "Hey how are you" doesn't work. It heavily doesn't work

2) Bio is boring

3) Unflattering photos

A lot of them just want to see how many guys they can match with for an ego boost. They're not necessarily at all interested in actually talking to them. Especially if they're already talking to someone hotter.

I actually put a lot of effort into the first message

You don't want to seem too desperate as well. Something short but original, make it relate to their photo.

I’m finding online dating really hard as I get matches but I never get any replies and I’m curious to why

Yeah I try thanks, I would comment on the bio but most girls have the PayPal.me link in the bio and it’s like

Tinder is the epitome of shallow sexual attraction. It does not matter what your bio says or what your opening message is, it is a meat market in which women have instant access to hordes of (relatively speaking compared to the women) desperate men and thus can select the most appealing without much effort. Unless you have a great body, a massive bulge or a very attractive face then you will be beaten by the competition on an arena which does not favour you.

Online dating itself is not a bad thing and POF/Okcupid are not as bad (though the free nature means its still a meat market) however if you really want to increase the number of responses then you either need to go somewhere with a narrower field of women (Fetlife for example) or go somewhere like Match and accept the financial cost where the ratio of women looking to meet somebody to men is not nearly as bad.

Thanks I’ll definitely try that I’ve heard of fetlife but not completely sure what it is I’ll give it a search