Just have an interesting personality, friendly demeanour, good conversational skills and plenty of common sense.
Workout regularly, tone your thighs and if you favour abs or ass work on getting this body shape too.
Maybe your build is due to hormonal issues connected to unusual testosterone, progesterone and oestrogen levels.
Sometimes this can be connected to genetics, contraception, diet, personal lifestyle choices or maternal contraceptive use long before you were born.