i dont believe its vital that you have to speak the same language, we both understand each other to a degree and its not like shes wanting an indepth conversation. although today i did see her reading a womens book i think shes trying to learn english - though it didnt stay open for very long.
the main problem is that i dont want to start a relationship and then in 3 weeks have to break it off. i hate it if somebody did that to me. especially knowing they would be going back to uni that would make me worrie no matter how much i trusted them.