He recycled the pet name with me

I only had one answer...

Tell him not to call you that nickname anymore. Personally if I'm not serious about the person I'd end it as this would make me feel like a replacement/replaceable.

My bf calls me in a very specific manner, he uses an original pet name to call me since we both met.

Few days ago he created a Spotify playlist for me with the title of this name with some romantic songs in it and sent it to me but then I entered his public profile.

I felt terrible when I discovered that he had created a playlist for his ex too with other songs but with the same name he uses to call me. (It was created when they were still together)

For some reason, I thought I was the only one he had called like that. It’s not even a romantic nickname but I made it mine in my head and now I feel bad. It may sound stupid but now I reject a bit being called like that.

I can understand we reuse romantic names like “love, honey, darling” etc but not this one. What can I do? How would you feel?

Would you dump him?
i will tell him but I’m scared he gets angry because I snooped his playlists (they are public) but I kind of made a research. i feel Like a second hand girl or something like that. My friends tell me that either he doesn’t have any creativity or that this fact is very ugly

Dump him? Over a pet name?
However, if he gets angry at you for looking at his PUBLIC profile, then I'd have some doubts...

My bf calls me in a very specific manner, he uses an original pet name to call me since we both met.

Few days ago he created a Spotify playlist for me with the title of this name with some romantic songs in it and sent it to me but then I entered his public profile.

I felt terrible when I discovered that he had created a playlist for his ex too with other songs but with the same name he uses to call me. (It was created when they were still together)

For some reason, I thought I was the only one he had called like that. It’s not even a romantic nickname but I made it mine in my head and now I feel bad. It may sound stupid but now I reject a bit being called like that.

I can understand we reuse romantic names like “love, honey, darling” etc but not this one. What can I do? How would you feel?

I wouldn’t that’s why I ask.
I’m very nervous about how facing this issue, how telling him I saw this. I’m also scared that after this everything gets worse

Sounds like the issue here is your insecurity...

I felt terrible when I discovered that he had created a playlist for his ex too with other songs but with the same name he uses to call me. (It was created when they were still together)

I don't understand why he would not just make it private??

Why? I don’t think it’s nice to be called like an ex. It’s not a common pet name, it’s an inside joke he seems to have used with both of us

Why? I don’t think it’s nice to be called like an ex. It’s not a common pet name, it’s an inside joke he seems to have used with both of us

I would find it weird too - to me it hints at a certain lack of sensitivity but all you can do is talk to him about it. Maybe it's a bit of a red flag if you do indeed find him insensitive in other areas of your relationship.