My boyfriend refuses to let me watch his football games

Talk to him. Tell him the truth about how your feeling. Let him know that you want to support him ❤️❤️❤️

Has he told you why he doesn't want you there? That might help you feel better if you know that he still likes you, he's just supersitious/easily distracted/embarrassed that the kit colours clash with his complexion or whatever

Fundamentally it's his choice - if he'd rather you didn't go, you ought to respect that. But he should also acknowledge that you want to go, and see if you can work out a compromise - maybe you could meet him after for the post-match drinks?

He says he would be embarrased if he lost, but Ive been to games before where he has lost. I wont go if he doesn't want me to but I just wish he would be more comfortable with me considering we have been together for a year.

He says he would be embarrased if he lost, but Ive been to games before where he has lost. I wont go if he doesn't want me to but I just wish he would be more comfortable with me considering we have been together for a year.

It may be because you’ve been to games where he lost, and it was a really embarrassing experience for him, even if he didn’t let on? I’d say you need to trust him on this one, and keep talking so he knows how you feel and can help you feel more secure.

I completely understand wishing he was more comfortable with you, it can be awful to feel that there are parts of your partner’s life that they don’t want you in! But as other posters have said it can also be part of a healthy relationship where you have space and independent hobbies, so the time you spend together is even nicer. Personally, I wouldn’t want my partner to come to watch me play sport. If you think it might help you could try getting involved in something else yourself, so he has his football and you have your own football team/book group/whatever so you don’t feel left out?