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Guy I've started talking to follows lots of ig models/pornstars?

I started talking to a new guy during lockdown, we haven't met due to COVID and we've been speaking two weeks. He is SO sweet, such a gentleman and wants to take me out on loads of dates, we message all day and everything, he's very respectful of me and charming -- there is no red flags. The only thing is I was looking through who he followed (to see if we had anyone mutual) and found that he's following lots of pornstars, naked models, etc. Not only that, but he seems to only follow half naked girls with a certain body type (classic hourglass), which I do not have btw. He also told me I'm his type, that his type is white girls (we're both white) but only follows a few white girls in comparison to the majority of his followings being mixed/black girls?

Is this weird/a red flag? I've dated guys before that followed girls obviously, but I've never dated a guy that openly followed porn stars and to this amount as well. Am I overreacting or is this a bit concerning? Other than that he's really sweet and into me, definitely seems to want a relationship.
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If it's a concern to you in moving forward toward a relationship ask him about it. He may see qualities in you no hour-glass girl on Instagram seems to show in their photos... Be on your toes and get to know him further, If it's alarming to you follow that 'alarm' rather than sighing it off as nothing. You want to follow gut instinct not sigh it off as it may have been that decision you'll have to remember to follow again if it were 'wrong' in terms.
Yes. probably pornsick guy. and yes it will **** up your relationship if you want a proper romantic relationship rather than casual
Rlly? All dudes have OF/porn addictions. Plenty of girls have porn addictions. Like meee lol! Seriously we see this on TSR every day y is it such a big deal? Don't u like hourglass figure girls u can appreciate them too?
Original post by candydiva
Rlly? All dudes have OF/porn addictions. Plenty of girls have porn addictions. Like meee lol! Seriously we see this on TSR every day y is it such a big deal? Don't u like hourglass figure girls u can appreciate them too?

All guys don’t have porn additions, most girls don’t have porn addiction either. There’s a difference between watching porn now and then and being addicted.

A guy going out of his way to follow pornstars on Instagram would honestly make me laugh. It wouldn’t even be an insecurity but I just wouldn’t take the guy seriously and probably would drop him. No mature man goes out of their way to follow pornstars on Instagram. He probably also has unrealistic expectations of sex but then again that’s just an assumption I’m making. Just dump him and find another decent, mature and humble man. Don’t entertain these jokers.
Original post by Anonymous
I started talking to a new guy during lockdown, we haven't met due to COVID and we've been speaking two weeks. He is SO sweet, such a gentleman and wants to take me out on loads of dates, we message all day and everything, he's very respectful of me and charming -- there is no red flags. The only thing is I was looking through who he followed (to see if we had anyone mutual) and found that he's following lots of pornstars, naked models, etc. Not only that, but he seems to only follow half naked girls with a certain body type (classic hourglass), which I do not have btw. He also told me I'm his type, that his type is white girls (we're both white) but only follows a few white girls in comparison to the majority of his followings being mixed/black girls?

Is this weird/a red flag? I've dated guys before that followed girls obviously, but I've never dated a guy that openly followed porn stars and to this amount as well. Am I overreacting or is this a bit concerning? Other than that he's really sweet and into me, definitely seems to want a relationship.

Most guys follow lots of pornstars/naked models tbh. Plus just because he follows a mixed/black one doesn't mean they are his type. As an example all of my white friends only like white women from what they've said to me but some of them still follow a few mixed especially ig models. Because ******* is different to dating. Most of my friends would **** over any girl with certain features but would only date their preference (white girls for my white friends). All I can say is you are still his type from what he said and don't get too stressed over him following IG models as most guys do it tbh. If it does bother you too much you can always ask him.

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