ok so here's the situation; me and him (both boys) met maybe 3 months ago and first kissed around 2 months ago. This is my first ever relationship and it moved a bit too quickly; we had sex on our 4th time meeting each other oops. It’s been over a month since that now and as of last week we are now dating. None of my friends like him and I have always got a lot of red flags about him but I just like him.
Here’s the problem. We only see each other once a week, often less. He says it’s because he’s too busy with school work, yet he still manages to see his friends and stuff. Obviously, from the outside, it seems like he doesn’t like me, but I’ve put him in many situations where he could have easily said if he didn’t like me, like one time quite recently I had a panic attack and accidentally texted him trying to break up with him during this, but he begged to stay together, which confuses me. (ik that sounds manipulative but I'm not doing it on purpose, it just makes me feel like he does like me even if it doesn't seem like it)
Every time I try and make plans with him, he makes me feel like I’m being a burden, and today he said something along the line of if I see him for 3 hours in a day then that’s 3 hours that he could be doing something else like seeing other friends or watching tv like excuse me. I told him that makes me feel like a burden and like he was just like why don’t you care about my needs BUT WE’RE DATING SURELY WE SHOULD SEE EACH OTHER MORE THAN ONCE A WEEK. Also it makes me sad because at this point I really feel like I need a boyf so that’s another barrier stopping me ending things. Anyway I think I want to break up with him, even though I desperately like him and would love to have a relationship where we see each other more often with him. Could anyone advise haha?