My boyfriend is acting a bit odd, help me please :(

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship since January and we are pretty much in love. Prior to me he had a gf of almost 2 years but she ended up leaving him due to her parents not accepting him, he told me he was broken and was very sad about it and i tried my best to cheer him up, i was by his side until few weeks after he started flirting with him and being very nice and always appreciated me for who i am as i helped him realise that she never loved him if she left. We got into a relationship only 2 months after his breakup and i just couldnt understand how he could forget her so easily, i broke up with my ex of 1 yr and it took me 6 months before i started feeling better and i was single during this time trying to heal. My now boyfriend used to send me many poems and as we live 3 hours away from each other he visited me for 3 days and had to go back due to work. Something odd was that not long after we started to get to know each other he was very ho*ny and we would have dirty talks a lot of the times and i was fine with it, he told his family about us and i spoke to his mother and siblings many times. Now something changed as he got another job he is always tired and drained and barely gives me the attention and time he used to give me before and it’s making me upset, few days ago he confessed that he still is hurt by his ex and many things remind him of her which frustrates him a lot and that this pain will stay with him until the day he passes, this somehow made me so insecure because he always says he loves me madly and i was all he thinks about. When i even mentioned anything about his ex he feels uncomfortable and gets panic attacks which makes me thing he does still have feelings for her . Now he barely sends me any poems or is too busy and doesnt have enough money to visit me. I feel so broken by this, any advice?

break up and move on

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship since January and we are pretty much in love. Prior to me he had a gf of almost 2 years but she ended up leaving him due to her parents not accepting him, he told me he was broken and was very sad about it and i tried my best to cheer him up, i was by his side until few weeks after he started flirting with him and being very nice and always appreciated me for who i am as i helped him realise that she never loved him if she left. We got into a relationship only 2 months after his breakup and i just couldnt understand how he could forget her so easily, i broke up with my ex of 1 yr and it took me 6 months before i started feeling better and i was single during this time trying to heal. My now boyfriend used to send me many poems and as we live 3 hours away from each other he visited me for 3 days and had to go back due to work. Something odd was that not long after we started to get to know each other he was very ho*ny and we would have dirty talks a lot of the times and i was fine with it, he told his family about us and i spoke to his mother and siblings many times. Now something changed as he got another job he is always tired and drained and barely gives me the attention and time he used to give me before and it’s making me upset, few days ago he confessed that he still is hurt by his ex and many things remind him of her which frustrates him a lot and that this pain will stay with him until the day he passes, this somehow made me so insecure because he always says he loves me madly and i was all he thinks about. When i even mentioned anything about his ex he feels uncomfortable and gets panic attacks which makes me thing he does still have feelings for her . Now he barely sends me any poems or is too busy and doesnt have enough money to visit me. I feel so broken by this, any advice?

Ah yes the epitome of TSR's relationship advice. I love how everyone just jumps to a break up instantaneously.

Ah yes the epitome of TSR's relationship advice. I love how everyone just jumps to a break up instantaneously.

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship since January and we are pretty much in love. Prior to me he had a gf of almost 2 years but she ended up leaving him due to her parents not accepting him, he told me he was broken and was very sad about it and i tried my best to cheer him up, i was by his side until few weeks after he started flirting with him and being very nice and always appreciated me for who i am as i helped him realise that she never loved him if she left. We got into a relationship only 2 months after his breakup and i just couldnt understand how he could forget her so easily, i broke up with my ex of 1 yr and it took me 6 months before i started feeling better and i was single during this time trying to heal. My now boyfriend used to send me many poems and as we live 3 hours away from each other he visited me for 3 days and had to go back due to work. Something odd was that not long after we started to get to know each other he was very ho*ny and we would have dirty talks a lot of the times and i was fine with it, he told his family about us and i spoke to his mother and siblings many times. Now something changed as he got another job he is always tired and drained and barely gives me the attention and time he used to give me before and it’s making me upset, few days ago he confessed that he still is hurt by his ex and many things remind him of her which frustrates him a lot and that this pain will stay with him until the day he passes, this somehow made me so insecure because he always says he loves me madly and i was all he thinks about. When i even mentioned anything about his ex he feels uncomfortable and gets panic attacks which makes me thing he does still have feelings for her . Now he barely sends me any poems or is too busy and doesnt have enough money to visit me. I feel so broken by this, any advice?