Would you marry him if not financially stable? What even is that

From reading what you wrote I can tell especially towards the end that you already know what you’re supposed to do in this situation. You probably want to hear someone else say it to validate your thinking. You already know what you want for your future and what you won’t be okay settling for, so go in that direction. The sooner you act the fewer consequences to face.

I hope that helps.

What is financially stable ?

So I’m 26 and my bf is 36. He has a lot of responsibilities and pays them. I live with my mum so I don’t have to pay rent etc.

Anyways we’ve been together 2 years. He hasn’t got much money after paying all his months bills. I don’t complain because I don’t need anything from him I have my own money. However I always hear him complain about all his bills and cost of living and stuff as he should I guess. He says he’s a broke guy. Which I don’t think he is. He owns a Mercedes car and pays it monthly etc so that isn’t broke. Broke is not being able to afford rent or a car. I believe a car is a luxury. It’s quite disturbing when he says he is a broke guy. I remember first dating him he said this. Anyways whatever

I don’t want to get married until I’m fully in my career and stable myself. So I would say next 6/7 years is when I would want to potentially build a family and be a wife.

Anyways getting to the point.
He doesn’t seem financially stable and wants more for himself. He obviously needs a higher salary to have a family etc and do more in life than living from pay check to pay check. And absolutely not want I want in a husband. If we was to get married I wouldn’t marry him until he’s stable and on a higher salary. Money is a big deal and does lead to divorces. Am I wrong for feeling like this.

Also, with this mentality that I have is it ok to stay in the relationship right now because I’m not wanting to get married anytime soon? Or is this something I should seriously think bout before it gets too late. Obviously if he’s in the same position 7 years down the line and it’s not want I want I’ve wasted my time haven’t I

What is financially stable ?

So I’m 26 and my bf is 36. He has a lot of responsibilities and pays them. I live with my mum so I don’t have to pay rent etc.

Anyways we’ve been together 2 years. He hasn’t got much money after paying all his months bills. I don’t complain because I don’t need anything from him I have my own money. However I always hear him complain about all his bills and cost of living and stuff as he should I guess. He says he’s a broke guy. Which I don’t think he is. He owns a Mercedes car and pays it monthly etc so that isn’t broke. Broke is not being able to afford rent or a car. I believe a car is a luxury. It’s quite disturbing when he says he is a broke guy. I remember first dating him he said this. Anyways whatever

I don’t want to get married until I’m fully in my career and stable myself. So I would say next 6/7 years is when I would want to potentially build a family and be a wife.

Anyways getting to the point.
He doesn’t seem financially stable and wants more for himself. He obviously needs a higher salary to have a family etc and do more in life than living from pay check to pay check. And absolutely not want I want in a husband. If we was to get married I wouldn’t marry him until he’s stable and on a higher salary. Money is a big deal and does lead to divorces. Am I wrong for feeling like this.

Also, with this mentality that I have is it ok to stay in the relationship right now because I’m not wanting to get married anytime soon? Or is this something I should seriously think bout before it gets too late. Obviously if he’s in the same position 7 years down the line and it’s not want I want I’ve wasted my time haven’t I

Yes I understand that but because it’s not something I want to do Atleast for 7 years. His income can legit change overnight right. So would I throw things away now for something that could change anytime?