Talkative or Listener

My colleagues are really friendly, however I just find them extremely chatty people. It does get me down a lot because they can never give anyone else a chance to speak...it‘s always them all the time.

They can never just listen and observe what other people on the team have to say.

I can‘t even express my opinion because they keep butting in all the time. It has made me feel depressed and that I‘ve failed in my job because I‘m kinda quiet.

Any advice?

I just want to know which is better... the Talkative or the Listener/Observer?

I would say balancing is really vital. A person should also understand when to talk or listen, depending on the situation. But I'm more of a listener and observer. Always talking too much doesn't mean someone's intelligent. Rather, most of the time, they're proven to be inferior.

Totally agree with you...I think balance is best. I‘m more of a listener and observer too

Thanks

My colleagues are really friendly, however I just find them extremely chatty people. It does get me down a lot because they can never give anyone else a chance to speak...it‘s always them all the time.

They can never just listen and observe what other people on the team have to say.

I can‘t even express my opinion because they keep butting in all the time. It has made me feel depressed and that I‘ve failed in my job because I‘m kinda quiet.

Any advice?

I just want to know which is better... the Talkative or the Listener/Observer?