Sleeping with other people whilst dating

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?

2+? Don't they remember the exact number?

Dating implies no commitments. Was your dating going anywhere? would they agree?

Usually, dating is casual. You're allowed to date more than one person at once. Were you in a relationship? No. So, you have no right to be annoyed to be quite frank.
Whether you agree with it or not, that's what he wants to do in his spare time.
Choose what you want to do but personally, I don't think he has done anything wrong.

Personally I only date one person at a time and I think there’s a certain level of respect, if you are seeing someone, then I would not start sleeping with other randomers.

The sleeping part I don't agree with. But he IS allowed to date more than one person.

It was. But then we had a fight just before they left for that weekend, so it was left on uncertain terms. But they did know, I liked them a lot.

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?

I think a lot of people would assume if they had a fight with someone they were merely dating that was the end of things, there wouldn't be any formal breakup.

The trouble is the terms 'dating'' and 'seeing someone' often blur a bit for different people. To me dating is spending some time getting to know someone making broadly clear what your intent is, but it has 0 commitment and you could be dating or being physical with several people. It would only be a few 'dates' before one of us would likely be pushing for a choice - either we don't click, we want to start being exclusive, bf & gf whatever or we are just having a sort of FWB deal with no more. I think a lot of people would say 'seeing someone' means things have progressed and you have agreed to be exclusive, if you haven't things are just in limbo really.

Depends. If you are exclusively dating and are committed then it is cheating and not acceptable at all. If it is a situation where you have been on like a date or two and are getting to know each other but its not serious or committed or exclusive yet then i dont personally see an issue because you can get to know an die intimate with other people. I guess its all about personal expectations which is why communication is important

Yeah I think the communication has fallen apart and that’s how/why this has happened.

Thank you, I appreciate that. And can I ask, if you were in a similar position and found out this information. Would you end it completely or give him another chance?

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?

What are your views on this?

I found out the person I’m dating slept with 2+ people last weekend and feel really upset about it. I feel it’s disrespectful and not sure how I can move forward with them knowing that. Am I overreacting?