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rumors being spread abt me

there has been two times when a person makes rumors abt me these are:
- once something happened that made me upset by being talked behind my back and than a person playing the victim card, and i got told that the person said a few lies abt me
- and there were two ppl who said i bullied someone when i didnt even do it, a person asked me whether i bullied them and i said no because its the truth. but when i asked one of the ppl who were saying it they said they were just laughing abt me and said it
Reply 1
I am going through the same thing, only thing is, it is true.

I have, and gradually going into had, a porn problem. And I was active on Reddit. Some boy from my school traced me from Reddit and screenshotted my posts and comments, and sent it to people. So I assumed the worst case scenario, that is everyone knows. And the thing is, I was also recently a victim of blackmail.

If I were you, pursue the stoic path that I have begun taking. I cannot change what people think. I cannot control what people say about me. I have been experiencing trauma ever since. Especially the fact of the stigma society has created around porn. This guy, what he did, is tantamount to abuse. And there is no point in taking action, because in a few weeks time he will be off to university, so he already did the damage.

I know that our situations do not match in the slightest, but you should know this - do not care about it. Make your success your voice. This will always happen, that people will try to find dirt on you. It is like in the movie Central Intelligence starring Dwayne Johnson and Kevin Hart.

Do not care about it. Start sitting alone in school and classes. Make studies your focus. And most importantly, do not lose your courage. I lost my smile, my humor, my everything for a month. But I am gradually getting it back :smile:

Good luck bro. I wish you well.
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous
I am going through the same thing, only thing is, it is true.

I have, and gradually going into had, a porn problem. And I was active on Reddit. Some boy from my school traced me from Reddit and screenshotted my posts and comments, and sent it to people. So I assumed the worst case scenario, that is everyone knows. And the thing is, I was also recently a victim of blackmail.

If I were you, pursue the stoic path that I have begun taking. I cannot change what people think. I cannot control what people say about me. I have been experiencing trauma ever since. Especially the fact of the stigma society has created around porn. This guy, what he did, is tantamount to abuse. And there is no point in taking action, because in a few weeks time he will be off to university, so he already did the damage.

I know that our situations do not match in the slightest, but you should know this - do not care about it. Make your success your voice. This will always happen, that people will try to find dirt on you. It is like in the movie Central Intelligence starring Dwayne Johnson and Kevin Hart.

Do not care about it. Start sitting alone in school and classes. Make studies your focus. And most importantly, do not lose your courage. I lost my smile, my humor, my everything for a month. But I am gradually getting it back :smile:

Good luck bro. I wish you well.

Damn I know you feel I just got blackmailed last week and it is the most disgusting and vulnerable feeling but I learnt theres no point of being scared and yuno so what if ppl talk **** behind your back let dem how is it going to harm you unless they say it to your face then you should always and always stand up for yourself.
Reply 3
Exactly.
Never lose your courage. Ever.

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