I'm scared of getting arranged marriage

I'm a female and they don't listen to my online dating

They may find it easy to influence, manipulate, play games

The thing is if I call the police saying they never asked for my permission and I never said they will be sky saying they want to help me

But if I lie if im seeing someone can they go to the police and say I'm play games, proof I'm lying? They got proof of lying, but I may lie out of fear

Reply 1

Dnsnnssn

They can't force you to marry someone.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

But what if they say im lying and proof I'm lying?

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

But what if they say im lying and proof I'm lying?

They cannot force you into a marriage. If they say you wanted the marriage say you changed your mind. And at the ceremony just dont say "I do" or whatever you say in your culture

Reply 4

Muttley79

Original post by Anonymous

But what if they say im lying and proof I'm lying?

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/forced-marriage

https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/crime-law/forced-marriage/

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by Muttley79

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/forced-marriage

https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/crime-law/forced-marriage/

Thanks, but what if they say I'm lying about having a guy and here is the proof, arrest her?

Reply 6

Muttley79

Original post by Anonymous

Thanks, but what if they say I'm lying about having a guy and here is the proof, arrest her?

They won't :smile:

Reply 7

londonmyst

Always trust your gut instinct and put your safety first. :smile:

You have the freedom to decide whether you want to get married and if so when & to whom.
You can choose to let everyone know that you disagree with arranged marriage and would never consider one.
You can keep your private life private and let your family & friends know that you are focusing on your career/education/finances, with no plans to consider marriage for a few years.

It is not illegal to have a bf, not date or decide not to get married.
Forced marriage is illegal.
As is harassment, assault, sending abusive or threatening messages, domestic abuse through coercive and controlling behaviour.
Good luck!