Seeing ex on dating sites

Just redownloaded hinge for the first time months after my most recent relationship. One of the first people I see on there is my ex. I knew it was going to happen, just breaks my heart.

Reply 1

Surnia

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So you are both on Hinge. Are you allowed to be be, and not him?

Pot, kettle...

Reply 2

username5955039

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Original post by Anonymous

Just redownloaded hinge for the first time months after my most recent relationship. One of the first people I see on there is my ex. I knew it was going to happen, just breaks my heart.

Lmao it breaks your heart why exactly he’s your ex you both are no longer in a relationship, if you had or still have feelings for him why did you break up in the first place :rolleyes:

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Surnia

So you are both on Hinge. Are you allowed to be be, and not him?

Pot, kettle...

I didn't say he wasn't allowed to be at all? I knew he would be but it's never an easy thing to see.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Mohammed_80

Lmao it breaks your heart why exactly he’s your ex you both are no longer in a relationship, if you had or still have feelings for him why did you break up in the first place :rolleyes:

Oh I definitely still have feelings for him that's why it's heartbreaking. He had commitment issues, so makes me question whether he was telling the truth in the first place, or I just wasn't enough pretty much?

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username5955039

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Original post by Anonymous

Oh I definitely still have feelings for him that's why it's heartbreaking. He had commitment issues, so makes me question whether he was telling the truth in the first place, or I just wasn't enough pretty much?

Probably had commitment issues then

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nonchalant-

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Original post by Anonymous

Just redownloaded hinge for the first time months after my most recent relationship. One of the first people I see on there is my ex. I knew it was going to happen, just breaks my heart.

IMO, it's too early for you to be dating if it still stings when you see your ex also moving on. Heal from that relationship first.

(edited 7 months ago)

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by nonchalant-

IMO, it's too early for you to be dating if it still stings when you see your ex also moving on. Heal from that relationship first.

I know you're probably right but I'm the kind of person that will literally take years to get over someone. And really the only way for me to get over someone is to start talking to someone else. I know that's not the healthiest way to deal with it.

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Anonymous #2

Yeah just take it easy

Reply 9

nonchalant-

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Original post by Anonymous

I know you're probably right but I'm the kind of person that will literally take years to get over someone. And really the only way for me to get over someone is to start talking to someone else. I know that's not the healthiest way to deal with it.