He is acting odd, help :(

Me and my man decided to take a break from the relationship but he initiated it because after 5 months of being together, he suddenly fell into a depressive state and claimed that this break will allow him to focus on himself only and find himself again and that he promised me that he still loved me so much and we will get back together when he’s doing better. Now because of my past traumas and dealing with cheating i had a bad habit of checking his instagram following for any sign of cheating and there were none. He only followed friends, family and coworkers. I accidentally followed one of them and she followed me back. Keep in mind before we got together he was left by his ex of almost two years because her parents rejected him. Somehow one day i found myself blocked and i asked him why and he said he “accidentally” blocked me while he was blocking someone else (the coworker that followed me, she’s married with kids and way older) and i wasn’t buying it. I followed him again but he said he will deactivate his insta and before that he will accept my follow request but it has now been 3 days :frown:

and this is making me extremely paranoid. Any help or advice, should i ask him again to accept my request? Thank you

Reply 1

Surnia

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How many posts have you made about this guy? You haven't 'been together' 5 months; he lives just 3 hours away, that's 90 minutes for each of you to travel, and you've seen him once, in January. Accept that he isn't interested in the relationship, otherwise he would have made more of an effort and asked you to support him through his issues, and you aren't doing yourself any favours by constantly dwelling on him. Time to make a clean break and start living a healthier lifestyle without this mess hanging over you.

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7356727#post98465777

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7358701#post98477585

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7360061#post98489621

Reply 2

ageshallnot

21

Original post by Surnia

How many posts have you made about this guy? You haven't 'been together' 5 months; he lives just 3 hours away, that's 90 minutes for each of you to travel, and you've seen him once, in January. Accept that he isn't interested in the relationship, otherwise he would have made more of an effort and asked you to support him through his issues, and you aren't doing yourself any favours by constantly dwelling on him. Time to make a clean break and start living a healthier lifestyle without this mess hanging over you.

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7356727#post98465777

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7358701#post98477585

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7360061#post98489621

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