I (24f) have been involved with someone (22 m) for the past two years. Nothing really serious came from the situation until around 6 months ago. We finally started speaking ALOT more, it was very intense quickly and he made me feel so happy. After just a few days he became very very controlling demanding I send him photos of where I was and who I was with and if I said no I would be blocked. I have met him twice and although the first time meeting him was not the best the second time meeting him was amazing and i felt like we clicked. But again he was very abusive constantly calling me a *****, calling me a hoe, telling me that I am not loyal and not ready for a relationship. Constantly blocked and unblocked and given the silent treatment, I found out about him meeting and speaking to a girl the same time me and him were “together”. He had been telling her all the same things as me and that he loved her ( he had told me the same) I decided to cut all contact with him I told him I never wanted to talk to him again and he blocked me.
I’ve spent the past few months focusing on me and getting my self into a better mindset and healthier. I have noticed fake accounts adding me on Facebook no profile pictures and no friends. I just ignored these, then days later I would receive a message from a fake account saying things such as do you miss me. I replied asking who it was and they started sending me random pictures of google. I blocked this account and days later another one would add me under another fake name and no photos and no friend request sent just a message request. The message requests were always things such as “hey sorry about the random message I’m new to Facebook your fit you”. So I have been blocking the accounts every time I get a request. Another account messaged me a few days ago, I saw on Google to just leave it and not to block the account or give it any attention so I did just that.
This account was messaging me asking for my bank details to pay for me to come round for a drink. It would then message me things such as that they’re 29 years old and live in the same town as me. Asking where I lived and harassing me for my bank details for my pussy. I carried on ignoring the messages and it was telling me that they’ve met me before and called them selfs “my boy” which is exactly what I called my ex. I replied asking if it was my ex boyfrjend (by his name) and the account blocked me. I also looked and this account was following one person who happens to be his ex girlfriend from before me. Would you confront him? Or just keep ignoring the messages?