Is sex supposed to hurt your first time?
we had a condom that had lube on it.
If you're female and it hurt the first time, that's fairly common actually. Here's some things and pointers to consider the next time you plan on getting it on:
1.
Lube (if you can't get wet). Sounds basic but this matters more than the rest!
2.
Consider (more) foreplay. Like our mouths stretching before we eat, or we yawn, the vagina is more open before and after sex, which has the function of preparing for intercourse and accommodating his penis better. If you're too quick 'sticking it in' without much foreplay this is a common reason why females feel pain!
3.
Masturbation. Especially penetration (dildos, fingering). The vagina is a muscle, and, like all other muscles in our body, it can be stretched and made flexible. So if your vagina is more flexible during intercourse, it can help with the sensations when he puts his penis inside you.
1.
Lube (if you can't get wet). Sounds basic but this matters more than the rest!
2.
Consider (more) foreplay. Like our mouths stretching before we eat, or we yawn, the vagina is more open before and after sex, which has the function of preparing for intercourse and accommodating his penis better. If you're too quick 'sticking it in' without much foreplay this is a common reason why females feel pain!
3.
Masturbation. Especially penetration (dildos, fingering). The vagina is a muscle, and, like all other muscles in our body, it can be stretched and made flexible. So if your vagina is more flexible during intercourse, it can help with the sensations when he puts his penis inside you.
Ok thank you! I will try these. I did not think he was that big but he was bigger than my finger which is what I am used to. I guess I just need to stretch more.
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