Boyfriend might be planning a road trip without me

We’ve been together 2 years and we really do everything together. It’s not unhealthy, we love each other so deeply and genuinely enjoy each others company.

His friend has asked him to go on a European road trip with just the boys for 2 weeks!!

I trust my boyfriend implicitly and the boys he would be going with (minus the person who asked) are very ‘geeky’ and not the ‘laddish’ type so I trust boyfriend and them but the thought of not seeing him for 2 weeks terrifies me.

He really is my rock and my world and I work and have hobbies besides him but I’m terrified. Also the person that asked him on the trip, quite frankly I’m not a fan of because when I was in his company he kept showing my boyfriend girls on tinder and telling him to look at their ‘arse’ which made me feel terribly uncomfortable.

Personally, I absolutely wouldn’t go in a girls trip for 2 weeks without my boyfriend and neither would they but obvs he’s a different person and I don’t want to be a control freak!

We haven’t really discussed the topic, I’m too scared to and it gives me too much anxiety! I would just miss him like crazy but I know how much he loves driving cars

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

bro, get over it and talk to him about it

Reply 2

StriderHort

Well... you say the high amount of time you spend together is healthy... but you're freaking out and terrified over a temporary change.

If you're not wanting to be seen as a control freak then you'll need to calm.down a bit and resist the urge to challenge him.