I think i have developed nice guy syndrome?

But eventually girls get bored of the 'nice guy'

Sometimes, most of the time it's more of a slow burn. You'll see them around for ages and think nothing of it, then BOOM! One day you'll realise how absolutely perfect they are and chase them like hell

I WOULD BE GLAD TO.




Seriously

girls here are saying they want nice guys. but they get boring quickly. you need some spice in a relationship not just a soppy bastard. something in the middle.

I can relate to that.. i used to be the same as your bf as i used to have bugegr all confidence.. But thats changed now and i dont have a problem meeting new people and speaking up. maybe i just have a bad image of the "nice guy" from tv? or maybe nightclubs isnt the best place to try and find "nice girls"

I was up the other night thinking as you do and it occured to me that i may actually of actually developed nice guy syndrome.... and i think its started to come across when im on a night out aswel as i seem to end up becoming friends with girls on a night out rather than anything else. But that maybe because i am just one of them happy drunks who talks to everyone. Even in past relationships i have started becoming to nice and losing the spontanious edge. I became :
*reliable
*predictable
*unargumentitive
*and always bieng nice.

What do people think? doctors for me? pump some anti-nice guy medicine back into me?.

Anyone else suffering or got anything wise to say about this annoying syndrome?

I was being facetious, and thanks for the relationship advice

I'm aware it's a common misconception...Much like that 'girls don't want nice guys'...the point the OP was trying to make.

And you need to consider that unless a person is constantly moving about (or mid change of circumstance, i.e. going to uni) you tend to be around the same people regularly so it's not like new people crop up constantly, so incase they aren't nice guys, they will be the source of current opinion.

Nice guy syndrome sucks. It's not the being nice, its the non-flirty, boring predicatble, woman on a pedestal behavior thats the problem. Just be confident. Know that you are wanted for you.

I'm past the stage of feeling sorry for myself for being a nice guy and not getting girls.
It's a fact of life that girls will say they want a nice guy and then get with a bad boy, so to speak.

Lol I'm just imagining all the girls who have been hurt by one of these bad boys, go to cry on the shoulder of the nice guy to complain about how they never find a nice guy, only to proceed to get with the next bad boy.

Its not us girls like *********. Its that we are attracted to their confidence, how laid back they are and how fun they are. They are normally attractive aswell tbh.
We do like nice guys, but normally 'nice guys' are a bit boring and thats why we are not attracted to them. You can be nice, confident, fun, and have a good sense of humour. But it just so happens that 'bad guys' have qualities we are attracted to in a man

Nice guys go unnoticed by women though.