Meh, for many girls their boyfriends are the only ones that really "love" them or take the time to listen to them banter about... well anything. you have to remember, a large portion of people are well... uneducated and haven't reached that level of mental capacity to think abstractly, to think "differently" than everyone else.
I'm not being sexist here, just going by observation, a large portion of women just don't think critically. They don't think rationally. Now I know I'm going to get flak about this but I'm not saying all and I'm not saying either/or is superior to the other, however a a large percentage of women think with their feelings rather then their minds. This isn't their fault, it's the result of the environment they live in.
Most environments around the world are patriarchal, entitling men to the power, money, and all that "good" stuff. Women are here and hold an equal value to men. Equal. I believe that men and women are equal on a mental level, of course you have to factor in the biological aspect as well; we are ultimately limited to what our genes provide us.
I'm jumping around here but my overall gist is... well that a lot of women are raised with the idea that these petty ideas that they might have are important. The whole materialistic and beauty of things over rational thinking and structuring the mind. And again I'm not saying all, I'm just mentioning MY observations from many cities and university studies. I also can't read minds so I could be completely wrong, however if i was I don't think the observations I have wouldn't reproduce predicable patterns at the rate I'm seeing.