I arranged a date with someone from a sugardaddie website

Thank you, and also for not being judgemental.

If I fancy him and it turns out he is interested and wants more in terms of a NSA relationship, what do you think the best thing to do?

On his profile it says he's not limited to a sugardaddy relationship.

No worries. Just ignore those with their self-righteous attitudes.

Well that's a good thing I suppose, because it'll mean he's open to other options. If he is potentially interested in an actual relationship, then the best course of action would be to just openly have a conversation about it. You could always just have a trial run to see how you both feel?

Thanks.

Sorry to be a pain, just want your opinion on something.

We are in the process of planning location for meet up, I work in Surrey and we're planning on meeting up in London. He had suggested meeting up in Liverpool street which is ideal for me because I like the area, but when I told him I'm coming from Surrey so would get there for 7, he said he can meet me in Waterloo or Clapham junction if it's easier. Unfortunately for me those areas bring up bad memories because I used to go there with my ex. So I responded and said:

'Okay, great 7pm it is.

Oh you don't have to come all the way to Clapham Junction. I quite like Bishopsgate so Liverpool Street sounds great, or we can even meet up in Bank, I guess that's halfway lol.'

He still hasn't responded yet . Do you think he might have sensed my avoidance? I hope I haven't put him off.

Sorry if you dot know London well, but I hope you get what I'm trying to describe lol.

You're not.

I wouldn't say so. If anything, it comes across as you being considerate, rather than wanting to avoid the location.

Haha, cool, thanks.

Hope he responds!

No problem.

Patience.

Haha thanks.

He messaged back, lol those butterflies are back in my stomach

Good good.


When are you meeting him?

Tomorrow. So nervous lol.

Tomorrow. So nervous lol.

Lmao of course he's sleazy, he's on a sugar daddy website!

Tomorrow. So nervous lol.

How did it go?

He cancelled yesterday's, he said he had some work colleagues who were visiting to entertain. We rescheduled for today but he's just cancelled, citing work

He just texted saying he will make it up to me.

I don't know whether or not to just call it off, or just to give it another chance, given its not a normal dating situation.

I'd made myself look all pretty lol @.

He cancelled yesterday's, he said he had some work colleagues who were visiting to entertain. We rescheduled for today but he's just cancelled, citing work

He just texted saying he will make it up to me.

I don't know whether or not to just call it off, or just to give it another chance, given its not a normal dating situation.

I'd made myself look all pretty lol @.

Well that's disappointing to hear. You're certainly right to question whether to give it another go. Just don't let it get you down, if he said he'll make it up to you, then hopefully he will?

There are certain possibilities here
- He is married (not unnatural for an attractive, well off 45 year old. He wouldn't mention it anyway) and things with his wife is getting in the way
- He is very nervous and not sure if he wants to go through with it
- There is another girl from the site in the picture whom he was more interested in meeting up with

I'd say give it one more chance, but if he cancels again, drop it. The fact that you got ready for the date when he canceled, says he canceled quite late and it is disrespectful.

There are certain possibilities here
- He is married (not unnatural for an attractive, well off 45 year old. He wouldn't mention it anyway) and things with his wife is getting in the way
- He is very nervous and not sure if he wants to go through with it
- There is another girl from the site in the picture whom he was more interested in meeting up with

I'd say give it one more chance, but if he cancels again, drop it. The fact that you got ready for the date when he canceled, says he canceled quite late and it is disrespectful.

I'm into older men, like Pierrce Brosnan

But I don't want to be a sugarbaby in the context of these dating websites. I might like this guy though, he might be looking for a genuine girlfriend.