Isn't it terrible to be black and gay?

Anon please.
Isn't it excruciating to be black and like guys? I particularly like guys (white guys) who would otherwise like white guys too and it seems that black guys aren't considered attractive or whatever, especially with the popular twink scene and I particularly like those type of young twink guys.

It's so bad that I'm actually being forced to almost *turn* straight because although I'm not exactly unattractive (been with fit girls of different races), I don't exactly fit the kind of image typically young white gay guys go for.<sub>Am I overreacting? If you're gay/bi, would you even give second glance to a dark guy, let alone go for him? I'm black by the way and was born in Scotland.

It just seems that the type of guys I would like to go for (young, fit, white) would also go for those same type of guys (white) or maybe Asian, but not black</sub>

You know, I just think you've got to be confident in who you are. As in realizing the fact you're black and gay doesn't make anything worse than it already is? You know? I think it becomes hard once you tell yourself you're not what other people are searching for. I feel like once you accept all your perks, it really doesn't matter what other people are searching for. You just kinda adopt this "This is what I am, take it or leave it" kind of attitude.

Anon please.
Isn't it excruciating to be black and like guys? I particularly like guys (white guys) who would otherwise like white guys too and it seems that black guys aren't considered attractive or whatever, especially with the popular twink scene and I particularly like those type of young twink guys.

It's so bad that I'm actually being forced to almost *turn* straight because although I'm not exactly unattractive (been with fit girls of different races), I don't exactly fit the kind of image typically young white gay guys go for.<sub>Am I overreacting? If you're gay/bi, would you even give second glance to a dark guy, let alone go for him? I'm black by the way and was born in Scotland.

It just seems that the type of guys I would like to go for (young, fit, white) would also go for those same type of guys (white) or maybe Asian, but not black</sub>

Anon please.
Isn't it excruciating to be black and like guys? I particularly like guys (white guys) who would otherwise like white guys too and it seems that black guys aren't considered attractive or whatever, especially with the popular twink scene and I particularly like those type of young twink guys.

It's so bad that I'm actually being forced to almost *turn* straight because although I'm not exactly unattractive (been with fit girls of different races), I don't exactly fit the kind of image typically young white gay guys go for.<sub>Am I overreacting? If you're gay/bi, would you even give second glance to a dark guy, let alone go for him? I'm black by the way and was born in Scotland.

It just seems that the type of guys I would like to go for (young, fit, white) would also go for those same type of guys (white) or maybe Asian, but not black</sub>

I thought that black guys were more 'in demand' in the gay community. I've gotten the impression that penis size is a lot more important to gay guys than it is to girls, so with black guys having bigger equipment on average would be more sought after when looking to hook up with someone. That being said, it could only be a thing for ONS's and it's less important when trying to find a partner.

On the surface of it, I can't see any reason why the issue would be different with gender. As in, isn't it also difficult for black girls who like white guys. Do white gay guys really prefer someone of their own ethnicity compared to a straight white guy who may not be as fussy?

I thought that black guys were more 'in demand' in the gay community. I've gotten the impression that penis size is a lot more important to gay guys than it is to girls, so with black guys having bigger equipment on average would be more sought after when looking to hook up with someone. That being said, it could only be a thing for ONS's and it's less important when trying to find a partner.

On the surface of it, I can't see any reason why the issue would be different with gender. As in, isn't it also difficult for black girls who like white guys. Do white gay guys really prefer someone of their own ethnicity compared to a straight white guy who may not be as fussy?

A gay, black, Jewish gypsy. That's someone to feel sorry for!

Richy you seem to have been exposed to the worst type of gay guy a "size queen", and whilst some people do choose this superficial reason for their partners, I would hope most don't. Albeit, I don't have data to back this up.

I see.. Well, I'm not particularly clued up on the gay community, that was just my perception of it, and someone obviously thought a neg was justifiable for my lack of understanding. I'm not at all ignorant towards those kinda issues, so thanks for enlightening me ever so slightly.

Hey mate it wasn't me I assure you. I don't know why you received the negs, I will actually attempt to counterbalance this act now.

Your point was incredibly valid, as there are people out there who are "size queens" and who may hold the misconception that black men have larger genatalia.

What you said wasn't offensive, so just ignore the negs mate.

FAT. You forgot FAT!