I love him so much, but how can I make him fall for me?

Isn't it better just to ask him directly about his orientation instead of getting a friend to do it?

I feel like I'm watching a documentary on how homosexuals do their mating rituals and ****. My popcorn is ready.

that would be very awkward as we barely talk. Michelle knows him more so that would be more convenient.

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Do you have him on FB? Sometimes people say if they're gay under "Interested In."

Get her to ask him if he has a girlfriend as there's a girl who's interested in him? (See if he's dated girls before, ofc could be bi too)

Maybe she could ask him about the orientation instead of assuming it? The question could just arise from casual conversation.

well that's what i told her to say. and according to her, she says he's gay from the convo they had, but like i said, i need more proof

If he says he's gay, then most likely he isn't lying. What proof do you need?

he didn't actually say he's gay. he was "teasing" her about it when she "indirectly" asked him

Still, if I was in his position, I would rather be asked directly.

Surely it would just make far more sense for Michelle to ask this guy whether or not he's gay straight up. If he is, great! If he's not, you have your answer.

I don't mean to sound cruel but you and Michelle are carrying on like 14 year old school children and not adults. Handle it like an adult relationship, take the bull by the horns and just ask him (even if it is through Michelle) whether or not he's gay.

miiiiichelle my belle sont les mot qui vont tres bien ensemble

michelle is the one you will end up with.

mark my words.

lol. well I wanna handle this situation with "care". I dont' want michelle to rush up with it and ask him straight out if he's gay. we live in a close minded society and he might freak out. I've come so far, been obsessing with him for over a year. I dont wanna screw it up that fast!

I'm honestly confused as to why Michelle has to be involved in this tbh. Just ask him yourself?

I think you're getting this completely back-to-front. Rather than try to make him fall for you, how about you getting to know him first?!

Okay, you fancy him - but by your own admission struggle to talk to him and haven't had much contact with him. Embrace the fact that you're meeting up soon to learn about him and let him know about you. Does he know you're bisexual? If you're going to be friends with him irrespective then he ought to know that and frankly if he is gay or bi then that information will hopefully be enough to prompt him to start casually flirting if he's interested.

A year is a long time to idolise someone and he cannot possibly be everything you've built him up to be so start slow and see what happens.

we're not close. he doesn't know me that well for me to ask him if he's gay. That's gunna be awkward.