I don't want rough sex like in porn, I want to make love like in the movies

mine has a little bone, just like some next stub

..but watching passionate love scenes from films gives me this delicious feeling in my stomach....i wish sex could be like that!
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as a media student, I just wanted to remind you that everything you see in the movies is real

Including people being blasted into bits with their limbs flying in the air and sky scraper being toppled?

Yeah, people do over estimate, because they think anything less than 7 is small, and it isn't. It was more likely that the 7 was 5inch and the 9 was 7inch. because that's still large haha

I am actually finding it quite funny that everyone seems to think im over exaggerating...i guess the guys I've been with are just lucky enough to be very well endowed (and i mean very, the 2nd guy frightened me when i saw it and if i hadn't have been drunk i probably wouldn't have gone through with it) but i've been in sexual situations with other guys before who are considerably smaller so i do have a range to compare to....anyway, thats not my point haha their dicks were as big as their egos, i'll probably just wait until im in a relationship now anyway, as i definitely want that experience .....these guys didn't even make eye contact with me! I think (hope) meaningful sex will be a lot better

Height bears no relation to penis size.

What I find unlikely is that both guys you have been with are over-average. That's highly unlikely. You're likely to be over-estimating it, particularly if you just measured with your eyes. I know of girls who claimed their guy was 11 inches... yeah, no.

My boyfriend is around 9 inches. It can get painful.

Making love is with someone you... Love! That's where the passions and tenderness and making yourself pace yourself comes from. Taking the time to really know eachother's bodies and tease whereas rough sex is just about getting the right amount of speed and friction to get a an orgasm

Sometimes I just want him to grab me and pin me against a wall sometimes I want to get slow and intensely sensual. Get the blindfolds out etc

Either you need to find a boyfriend who is into that or a guy who is a real giver online and likes tantalising women and going all romantic like. I've only ever hooked up with someone I wasn't close friends with *once* and it was just PoundPoundPound and I regretted it. Didn't get any pleasure and felt like a fleshlight to him. With my boyfriend and FWBs it has been beautiful and passionate with give and take, took us to another level.