Guy (25) going out with a divorced single mother (19)

I just had to check his profile out... It says he's in middle school... I'm from the UK so I'm guessing he must be aged between 11-13? No wonder he's an idiot. The poor kid hasn't been educated correctly.

Sadly I'm 99% sure OP is 20 something
The school on his profile is from some TV show called The Wire

"Having lived with different people at different points in time, every single time"

" When I'm living with a woman, I literally find myself trying to stay out for"

He posted this a few hours back in another thread regarding marriage so I was assuming he was older. Then again he could just be a bored troll.





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This thread isn't really helpful now at all. You people don't seem to grasp the dire implications here. All I'm hearing is "oh okay, they're in love, let them be, it's none of your business". If the same thing was happening to you, trust me you would be singing a whole different tune.

Dating and marriage are two different things jackass

It's my fault, I haven't been very clear. I fear she may be using him. She doesn't care about how this will affect him, his life and his relationship with his family. It will ruin his relationship with his father and completely destroy him. He's not using his brain, I think he's so excited and happy that someone has shown in interest in him. Unfortunately, instead of his brain, he's letting another body part do the thinking.

When people form relationships, they should consider the wider implications and consequences. It's selfish not to. They must consider how it will affect both of their families. And he just seems to be happy to continue this secret relationship (but obviously I know, it's so blatant, ever since I talked to her I knew straight away there was something going on between them).

Nah interracial marriages dont last because cultures clash my dear. Not because people trouble them.
Most people dont care who you marry.
And im not demonising her Im just saying why settle for less when you can have better?
Dont know why any self respecting 25 year old would date a girl thats a single teen mum.

This thread isn't really helpful now at all. You people don't seem to grasp the dire implications here. All I'm hearing is "oh okay, they're in love, let them be, it's none of your business". If the same thing was happening to you, trust me you would be singing a whole different tune.

Oh right. But the way he thinks doesn't suit a 20 something year old haha. He asks for people's opinion, yet tries to tell us how we're wrong?

You asked us a question and we answered just because they aren't the responses you wanted to hear doesn't make them less helpful and fyi I wouldn't be singing another tune both my uncle and my cousin are in interracial marriages and everything is fab and the kid thing doesn't bother me one bit

Ooh he said jackass You are the one who said marriages don't work. Because of clashes. Well they got married obviously because they were dating and already hurdled the culture barriers. And the way people date these days I hardly think they're different, gumnuts.

I'm sorry for you. I've also experience this tragedy previously, involving a different person who chose to have an interracial relationship and took it as far as marriage and having a child. Disaster struck then, and I fear it may strike again now a second time.

Why should people of different races not have children together?

yes but they are divorced now you idiot sheeit its too early in the morning for this.
As i said marriage and dating are two totally different things.

No families have absolutely **** all to do with relationships formed. They don't like it? They can **** off. It's actually very simple. Don't get why people such as yourself have to stick your nose in other people's personal lives. Would you be spending your life sleeping in between this couple? Don't you have a life of your own?



Interracial marriages do last. It's up to the couple to make it last.





I've seen it happened. Hell I'm in an interracial marriage myself. I still say you're an interfering douche. The same thing I told the other idiots irl.

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Because they will be mixed race. They won't definitively be one race or another. They'll be different to both parents. They will grow up to become alienated from both cultures/races. It's a very serious problem, on so many levels.

No families have absolutely **** all to do with relationships formed. They don't like it? They can **** off. It's actually very simple. Don't get why people such as yourself have to stick your nose in other people's personal lives. Would you be spending your life sleeping in between this couple? Don't you have a life of your own?



Interracial marriages do last. It's up to the couple to make it last.





I've seen it happened. Hell I'm in an interracial marriage myself. I still say you're an interfering douche. The same thing I told the other idiots irl.

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They who, popsickle stick? You made a general ass statement about interracial marriages.

Really? Alienating somebody because they are not the same race as you? I agree, this is a very serious problem: racism.

He doesn't have the right to make a decision without consulting his family first and gaining their approval. We're not talking about buying a car or picking a university here. This sort of thing has long term implications. I can't allow such an interracial relationship to continue to fester. Needs to be addressed and dealt with if I have any hope of preventing another crisis. Maybe I'm just overreacting, maybe it's never going to become a long term issue.

she has a child from another man
she's a different race to the guy
completely different cultural backgrounds
and they shouldn't really be in a relationship