sex doesn't feel good?

Am i the only female out there that thinks sex really does not feel as good as you expect it to?
I lost my virginity when i was 18, i am 23 now. I've only had sex with 4 different guys, but 2 of these were long term boyfriends so it's not a case that i've only had it 4 or 5 times...i've had it alot and it just is not getting any better.
I mean, all it feels like to me is something going in and out of me? i can feel it but it isn't pleasurable?
Also i have never ever orgasmed having sex. Infact no guy has ever made me have an orgasm.
Every time ive had sex the guy seems to love it, but for me its just so 'meh'. Really doesn't feel good to me...i genuinely feel there is something wrong with me

Am i the only female out there that thinks sex really does not feel as good as you expect it to?
I lost my virginity when i was 18, i am 23 now. I've only had sex with 4 different guys, but 2 of these were long term boyfriends so it's not a case that i've only had it 4 or 5 times...i've had it alot and it just is not getting any better.
I mean, all it feels like to me is something going in and out of me? i can feel it but it isn't pleasurable?
Also i have never ever orgasmed having sex. Infact no guy has ever made me have an orgasm.
Every time ive had sex the guy seems to love it, but for me its just so 'meh'. Really doesn't feel good to me...i genuinely feel there is something wrong with me

Can you pleasure yourself when masturbating?

If the answer is yes, none of these men actually knew how to impress you.

A lot of women get the most pleasure from the non penis in vagina bits of sex. Have these guys done much with their fingers and tongues?

Yes i can make myself orgasm, but it takes SO long. I'm talking an hour here

That's why these guys may have had issues making you scream, girl.

Although it does show their inexperience. You use your fingers, tongue and the fred in combination if you want a girl to get wet.

Well maybe quite not an hour but defintely takes longer than 30 mins. I do get wet, even before any sex has taken place. i do get aroused but just can't seem to get any pleasure. I question if it will EVER get better, if a man can ever make me orgasm he deserves a pat on the back lol

Is it going in the right hole?

My girlfriend finds penetrative intercourse not particularly enjoyable either, often mentioning that even though it's really painful she does it for me, but I find it difficult to enjoy it if she isn't either. So we mostly stick to non-penetrative, which is much more enjoyable for the both of us.

There is more than one way to be intimate

well at least i know that it's not just me having this problem. It is so frustrating, i want to be able to get the same enjoyment out of sex as everybody else

well at least i know that it's not just me having this problem. It is so frustrating, i want to be able to get the same enjoyment out of sex as everybody else

Well, I'll cross my fingers for you to meet someone who knows their stuff, simply going at it like an oil pump rig I don't think does it for a lot of women (possibly guys too).


An additional note, you mentioned that it takes a long time for you to bring yourself to an orgasm, it usually does take longer for women from what I'm aware. As one 'motivational poster' I stumbled across on the internet says, "a woman's orgasm is a marathon, not a sprint", so I suppose it's a common thing!

I think the problem here is that the whole lead up to penetrative sex is rushed and sometimes even ignored altogether, which is fine if the sex is enjoyable for both parties but not so much in cases like yours and mine. So again, I really do hope your next endeavour is much more enjoyable!

Maybe you guys should hook up and... you know, try if you're both compatible with each other?

I think my girlfriend would have something to say about that.