pregnant, muslim, not married

if he's just staying with you because of the baby- I wouldn't commit to him. I agree with your decision to abort the baby simply because your situation sounds extremely messy and doesn't sound like it would be healthy for a baby to be raised in such a hostile environment

No he's always wanted to marry me and have a family. He never wanted to leave me. It's more me...i just know me being muslim and he being christian can't work out. He said he will support me no matter what. He wants me to have the baby. He said he will let me raise aa muslim..he's not sure if he would ever Convert in future...

and yes I don't want to bring a baby in this world where A my life is in danger and baby's life because my brother may hunt me down...

and B have no support...

Did no one give you the relationships aren't allowed speech?

Btw just calm down.

To me it sounds like you two love each other. There are places that will help you keep the baby until you can marry him.

People of different faiths can have happy marriages ... take care of each other.

a baby is a blessing. But I can't marry him and we can't stay bf and gf even if he said I can bring up child as muslim. It's not allowed. He can't support me atm...he's still trying to find a job! I can't support myself. I am not 100 percent well. These days the council doesn't just give houses to any pregnant person....If I used my savings whilst private renting..and considering I work pt btw on a self employed non stable basis and bf has mo money coming in I would be homeless I'm few months. There also seems to be a consensus that a baby from zina which is fornication..should be aborted. Some scholars say that others say no. I want to keep baby no matter how ill I am but everything is against me.

I have no positive answers anymore. If I'm getting no signs nothing. ..seems like it's not meant to be.

Also I pray everyday sincerely from my heart ..and I'm not getting any sign that continuing with pregnancy is right thing to do. I feel that if god wanted me to continue and leave my sins behind and be a single mother because my bf would never Convert I would have had a sign by now ...

So u have extra marital sex and about to have almost two abortions yet you're still going on about islam, zina fornication etc?. Get a grip ffs, you're not a muslim anymore.

LMAO

How does one pray every day, and yet, ends up getting pregnant after having sex outside of marriage?

When you say your brother would hunt you down, do you mean that he would be violent or even kill you?

A very tricky situation for you both. Religion really does have a lot to answer for in terms of generating shame and problems. On the face of it if you want a future together go for it, marry or live together. Have your baby, look for solutions not problems. If after careful thought you have a termination fine but do try and get effective contraception . This is easily obtainable via GP or family planning clinic is effective and free. There is no shame in an adult woman having a sexual relationship married or unmarried in Britain today. Although you may not wish to upset your family it may be inevitable, it is their attitudes causing the problem. It is normal to have a sexual relationship with a boyfriend as an adult. Don't beat yourself up, look after yourself.

What you want to kill me do you. People like you make me determined to get close to god again. But wait I was already doing it. People make mistakes. I know I have to repeat sincerely. Your not god. You leave the Judging to god. You have no right to judge. If you have nothing useful to say just don't say anything.

Thank you. I'm gonna just think for few days...