How long did you wait before saying 'I love you'?

Reply 20

Blazar

12

Erm... Ten minutes? :confused:

Reply 21

soanonymous

11

I think it's a bit childish to put a time frame on saying it. I think it should be said when it's felt. Whether that's after a day, a month or a year. It could be said after a year and not meant, similarly it could be said within a day and be 100% genuine.

Me and my boyfriend personally said it early, it wasn't a big deal. When he said it, I wasn't like 'omg' and all amazed by it.

At the end of the day, they're just words. I'd rather forget about the words being said and focus on the actions being done.

Reply 22

Vestal Priestess

Guys always say they love me but I don't buy it.

Reply 23

Missc7336

2

well I'm an example of when new boyfriend had said it before hanging up the phone.
I'm quite cautious, but I feel that the relationship had started quite fast. but I did e same thing as he did. :cool:

Reply 24

Anonymous #1

Original post by Vestal Priestess

Guys always say they love me but I don't buy it.

If that's you in your dp I don't blame them... I love you

Reply 25

Vestal Priestess

Original post by Anonymous

If that's you in your dp I don't blame them... I love you

adriana lima is the girl in my avatar.

:frown:

Reply 26

Anonymous #2

Mine said it the first time I went round to his house, about 1 week in. :rofl:

Reply 27

cazzalea

Is it weird that I don't remember how long it took me to say I love you in my last relationship? I remember spending a few months saying 'I love poo' to each other as some kind of cryptic 'I love you but don't want to sound lame but I want you to know so.. I love poo.' thing. Think we eased ourselves into it?

Ah the joys of falling in lurv.

Reply 28

Anonymous #1

Original post by Vestal Priestess

adriana lima is the girl in my avatar.

:frown:

Googled...

... confirmed.

Sorry :colondollar:

I'm sure you're very pretty too to have so many boys fall in love with you

Reply 29

Condog10

OP

1

Original post by cazzalea

Is it weird that I don't remember how long it took me to say I love you in my last relationship? I remember spending a few months saying 'I love poo' to each other as some kind of cryptic 'I love you but don't want to sound lame but I want you to know so.. I love poo.' thing. Think we eased ourselves into it?

That is strangely adorable... what if your partner didn't get it and thought that you were actually confessing some sort of odd fetish?

Maybe they did and still do to this day!

Reply 30

Harpoon

18

Said it to my Ex about a year since we'd first started seeing each other but only about 3/4 months after we'd been properly going out. She said it back to me a few days later. Unfortunately we broke up not long after but I still feel the same way about her now

Reply 31

C_tinie_D

10

Original post by Harpoon

Said it to my Ex about a year since we'd first started seeing each other but only about 3/4 months after we'd been properly going out. She said it back to me a few days later. Unfortunately we broke up not long after but I still feel the same way about her now

Ah I know them feels bro :frown:

Reply 32

pinkbullets

12

I said it about a month in but we'd been in the same friendship group for about a year before that and I'd liked him for a few months prior to when we became an item. I was ridiculously drunk but I did mean it and we're still together four years later, give or take.

Reply 33

Missc7336

2

I had only met my love for two weeks, but we'd been hanging out together since. We aren't serious just yet. Give it time. it'll come natually

Reply 34

MinionMogul

1

9 months of seeing each other, 7 odd years of crushing. Went to **** within 3 months.

Reply 35

louieee

18

you don't wait, you say it when you know

Reply 36

bad_username

17

within a month as i was going to Paris and wouldn't see him for a week :cry2:

But he said it back! so it's all good :kiss2:

Reply 37

<3Music

8

My boyfriend said it after just under a month. I said it about a month later.

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Reply 38

lyrical_lie

19

4/5 months can't remember exactly and still going strong 3 years later :h:

Reply 39

Maid Marian

20

Original post by soanonymous

I think it's a bit childish to put a time frame on saying it. I think it should be said when it's felt. Whether that's after a day, a month or a year. It could be said after a year and not meant, similarly it could be said within a day and be 100% genuine.

Me and my boyfriend personally said it early, it wasn't a big deal. When he said it, I wasn't like 'omg' and all amazed by it.

At the end of the day, they're just words. I'd rather forget about the words being said and focus on the actions being done.

I think a lot of people can be really patronising about the l word, telling others whether or not they are 'allowed' to feel love by a certain point. Lame. You feel what you feel and there's a difficult distinction between infatuation and love. I think it's up to the person involved to make that distinction and decide when THEY feel they are 'in love'. :yy:

How long did you wait before saying 'I love you'?

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