Am I boring cos I don't wanna go out to 'exclusive' clubs?

Only because it was william walker, some of his posts aren't exactly orthodox.

Talking like that by, with such a negative attitude is probably what sways people away, I know it would do with me.
You really need to think positive about things.

I really cannot stand all of this self assessment negativity that people come out with, it's the main reason people don't approach you, it's not hard to sense, in person when somebody isn't comfortable with themselves.

Maybe you need new friends who have the same interests as you. I don't keep party/wild girls in company as I'm not one. Simple.

She is actually teetotal, as I said she works in entertainment. This is much a part of her job - she isn't a 'party girl' as in a wild drinking mess.

I don't think I have any friends who share an interest in staying in and eating crisps. We're all pretty high achieving types, you know? They never wanna miss anything

My friend works for website I won't be specific about in entertainment and she often gets into 'exclusive' clubs and meets people who frankly I've never even heard of, lately she has been trying to get me to go out more cos she knows I'm single. She has invited me to this club saying blah blah how exclusive it is and who'll be there and the men I could meet. She found out I'm living in Bethnel Green and she's using this against me to trap me in saying she booked a hotel so we can stay out etc.

On one hand I feel like should I be really grateful and think she's trying to be supportive and means well? But then she goes and texts me 'you ain't gonna meet someone staying at home eating cheese! Don't get boring we're all going' and I feel annoyed, I just want to stay in and get my head round things. This whole party lifestyle in proximity with z list dick heads doesn't sound fun or impressive to me it seems really vacuous and depressing

Input please am I being miserable as usual and holding myself back or am I right to want to say no to these things especially as I'm newly single and not ready to meet anybody? I feel like I can't talk to my other friends who are going cos I don't want to keep being captain bringdown

Everything sucks right now can't believe I'm moaning about this on a forum

Thanks for advice apart from the downright bizarre religion stuff and the rude 'what happened to the black dude?' questions

I left him cos I can't have children, no I haven't told him, yes that's a questionable decision

I'm glad not everyone is into these things I really don't want to go. My friend is messaging some guy from ****ing Geordie Shore and genuinely telling me about it like this will want to make me come out more. I just want to stay in forever at the moment. And if I was feeling like going out I don't want to go to a bar full of empty headed people

I don't know what to do. Blah.

you need to make some maturer friends.

i would go just to take the piss out of all the z list celebrities

Just because you don't go partying doesn't mean you sit in eating crisps. Surely yo must have hobbies, interests and passions beyond the TV if you are high flyer.