Boyfriend keeps having ago at me!

He does it all the time if I make a genuine mistake - we all do! However, today I lost a tenner :sigh:

I know! It is bad and I feel like a total idiot! It must have fell out when I was paying for shopping. Anyway, he literally will not let it go and keeps making me feel guilty and thick (by giving me sarcastic maths questions when I say I wonder where it went) so I had to pretend I found it at the bottom of my handbag by taking the money from my own bank account but I think he knows that I did it... I just don't know :frown:

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Reply 1

RiotGirll

8

If he's a dick, dump him (srs) if youve talked this over before

sounds like a penis

Original post by RiotGirll

If he's a dick, dump him (srs) if youve talked this over before

So thats your final answer? Just dump him?....

Reply 4

Twinpeaks

18

No significant person in your life should make you feel lower about yourself.

If a friend did that, you'd drop them in a second. You shouldn't tolerate that.

Reply 5

Black Cat

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Original post by Butterfly92xo

He does it all the time if I make a genuine mistake - we all do! However, today I lost a tenner :sigh:

I know! It is bad and I feel like a total idiot! It must have fell out when I was paying for shopping. Anyway, he literally will not let it go and keeps making me feel guilty and thick (by giving me sarcastic maths questions when I say I wonder where it went) so I had to pretend I found it at the bottom of my handbag by taking the money from my own bank account but I think he knows that I did it... I just don't know :frown:

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Does this happen often? If so then you shouldn't be putting up with it everyone makes mistakes from time to time. I do understand where he's coming from I would have of said something as well, but not in the manner he did. I wouldn't judge your intelligence based on common mistakes he seems a bit patronising perhaps you should let him know that it isn't on.

Reply 6

RiotGirll

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Original post by Synchyst

So thats your final answer? Just dump him?....

if you've talked this over before

Reply 7

It's****ingWOODY

20

Don't worry, he'll make a retarded mistake one day and you can rub it in his smarmy face :biggrin:

Reply 8

FridaKahlo

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Original post by danalwill

sounds like a penis

I bet he has one too

Reply 9

RiotGirll

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Original post by WoodyMKC

Don't worry, he'll make a retarded mistake one day and you can rub it in his smarmy face :biggrin:

OP should make a video calling her boyfriend out and post it on FB ayy lmao

Reply 10

TheonlyMrsHolmes

19

He sounds awful, you shouldn't have to lie really. It's a mistake, we all mistakes. Talk to him and tell him not be such a dick or dump him. He almost sounds on the verge of controlling, simply because you had to lie to him and say you found it.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 11

username1432214

15

Dump him already ... why would you even want a relationship with someone like that

edit:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3608209

is this the same guy?

Seriously .. dump him

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 12

TheonlyMrsHolmes

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Original post by RiotGirll

If he's a dick, dump him (srs) if youve talked this over before

Can't rep but this is true! ^

Reply 13

Simes

16

If a bloke does not treat you as special, then you are not special to him.

He's gotta go.

Sorry, but it's in your best interests. You don't need to be taking psychological abuse all the time - it won't do you any good.