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Muslim Woman ~ what do you look for in a husband?

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Money

Original post by ubisoft

Money

really? ur probably kidding :smile:

Reply 22

geniequeen48

Original post by HAnwar

Thanks

Firstly, I don't think anyone is ugly.
Secondly he should have just enough to support himself.
I'm not a very materialistic person so these things do not bother me.

Wait...YOU'RE A GIRL?? :eek:

Reply 23

geniequeen48

Handsome, not shorter than me, well built/slim, religious/God fearing but not extremist religious, funny, kind, romantic.

Reply 24

HAnwar

Original post by Muhammad Shehzar

Salam... I would just like to remind u that Our religion is one whether it b Hanafi, Shafi'i, Maliki or Jafferi.. All r muslims & have the same Madhab.. :smile:

We have different madhabs but the same religion :yy:

Reply 25

HAnwar

Original post by geniequeen48

Wait...YOU'RE A GIRL?? :eek:

Lol you only just figured.

Reply 26

Muhammad Shehzar

Original post by HAnwar

We have different madhabs but the same religion :yy:

Ohh.. when will this Firqa's over... btw r u a girl... :eek:

I thought u were a boy... HAnwar

Reply 27

aamirac

Just someone I can grow my imaan with together and hopefully meet him in Jannah inshallah

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Reply 28

HAnwar

Original post by Muhammad Shehzar

Ohh.. when will this Firqa's over... btw r u a girl... :eek:

I thought u were a boy... HAnwar

Yes lol that's why I commented on this thread. I know everyone thinks that because they just look at my surname.

Reply 29

username1854431

Original post by HAnwar

Lol you only just figured.

!!!!!!!!!!!

I thought you were a 25 year old man LOOOOL :laugh:

Reply 30

Lord Samosa

Original post by HAnwar

Yes lol that's why I commented on this thread. I know everyone thinks that because they just look at my surname.

If it helps I always thought you were a girl :lol:

Reply 31

JD1lla

Why God fearing? That's so effed up.

Reply 32

MJlover

Original post by JD1lla

Why God fearing? That's so effed up.

if someone's God fearing then they will treat u right and not oppress u

Reply 33

HAnwar

Original post by Starvation13

!!!!!!!!!!!

I thought you were a 25 year old man LOOOOL :laugh:

Whaat! So specific too :tongue:

Original post by Lord Samosa

If it helps I always thought you were a girl :lol:

Thanks!

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Reply 34

JD1lla

Original post by MJlover

if someone's God fearing then they will treat u right and not oppress u

lmao how does that work?

Reply 35

Biryani007

Someone funny, kind, practising, well-mannered, handsome and with a stable career/job....

Reply 36

MJlover

Original post by JD1lla

lmao how does that work?

Well since this thread is dedicated to Muslim women, I'd say in our religion, fearing God means you would give everyone their rights and not cheat them in anything. So with your spouse, you would give them time to spend with you, intimacy and treat her/him with kindness, you would also provide for them if you were the husband.

Reply 37

username1788167

The first and most important thing on the list for me is someone who is religious and is keen on learning more about and improving in Islam. Someone I can wake up with every morning to pray tahajjud :smile:

(amongst many other things of course).
My fiancé is exactly that and, to me, would be the perfect husband mashallah. So inshallah I am lucky enough to marry my ideal husband in the future!

Anyway, my advice to other sisters is don't focus on finding the richest, most handsome man who is lacking in religious values! Of course you should be attracted to them, but someone who is religious will turn out to be a better husband in fear of Allah. There is a Hadith regarding the matter of choosing a wife:

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (May Allah exalt his mention and protect him from imperfection) said: “A woman is married for four things: for her wealth, for her lineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select the pious, may you be blessed!”. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

The same should apply to us women :smile:

Reply 38

Sana_Akram

Original post by MJlover

SO many threads asking Muslim men if they are OK with marrying a specific type of woman, so I'm reversing it for us women

your all welcome to comment tho

Do YOU have a specific requirement?

No specific requirements really, It just depends on whether he has a good heart and knows how to respect a girl and treat her right.

Reply 39

username1854431

Original post by HAnwar

Whaat! So specific too :tongue:

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LOOOL, once I saw one of your visitor messages talking about a uni coursework a while back, I figured u finished uni by now for some reason lol.

Wtfff my mind is blown lol, i would never have guessed....

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So what do you think of those random hajabi fetishists that say they like 'unwrapping' hajbis LOL :laugh:

(edited 8 years ago)