I'm 18 year old girl addicted to porn.

I would say you need to ween yourself off of it, do not start watching the harder-core porn and back off slowly to nothing..

I would advise you seek counselling also

Slowly as in watch a little? It's an awful addiction and it really does corrupt your brain

When guys have it they view women as objects, but I'm starting to view myself as an object, "a vice for someones pleasure" and it makes me feel disgusting

I wouldn't know where to go for counselling, nor do I want to tell anyone these things.

Why do you want to remain a virgin? It's fine but your reasoning might help us explain. Perhaps the sexual tension is building and releasing it on someone else might help.


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As a guy who suffered from porn addiction I can try to understand what you are going through. What killed my addiction though, was my girlfriend leaving me. After that I wanted to change and didn't see porn the same way anymore, and realised how it tainted my view of reality and girls. I picked up other hobbies, like a bit of running, and reading. I have gotten the urge to just go on pornhub thinking "just once won't hurt" many times, but I just keep thinking I don't want to be the person I was before, the person I hated, and resist by occupying myself with other things or waiting for it to go away.

Though I don't watch porn anymore, I do pleasure myself with this girl I know, it is a much better alternative and doesn't make you feel like a **** person, though that's entirely up to you. I think right now try your utmost best to not go back there again, keep holding on to your most pure reason and motivation not to, that's something only you can help yourself with. I wish you good luck.

Reading the title makes me cringe but it is true, I am. I am doing my A-levels and failing because of it, it takes up 3 or 4 hours of my day (when I could be revising).

Fantasies / viewing preferences often differ from what someone would like to actually do. The ability to imaging / see something like that can be part of what makes it hot.

Three or four hours a night is a problem if it's affecting your work, so yes, you could do with doing something.

What would happen if you only saw some when you're already horny and want to get off quickly? Or before going to sleep?

For stopping one type of porn, analysing it while watching can take the erotic aspect out. 'He's barely hard, she's thinking of something else, that's faked, there was big gap between those two shots...'

Me and my ex had pretty rough, as you describe 'degrading' sex, slapping and choking and whatever, yet we were in love and happy just as any other couple. Your bedroom preferences don't reflect your emotional preferences all the time. Just because you like rough sex (or the concept of it) that doesn't mean you're going to have a violent partner.

Its a difficult topic. Feel free to message me if you want to talk about it, more than happy to chat. You will remain anonymous of course, im no troll


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